katified Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Let me explain my situation a little bit. I'm 19 years old. My now [ex] is 21. We started things young. He moved in when I was sixteen years old. We were heavily in love, up until about a month ago. He went to a party with his ex flame and did not look back from there. This is a girl he used to have sex with before he met me but refused to date because she was not 'wifey material' aka a whore. I do not think he will be dating her, I think he is rebounding from our relationship. She is truly a whore and this is not just the jealous girl in me speaking. She's known as a classic grade A+ skank. Our relationship has been amazing. This man would have walked on water for me two months ago ago. We bickered, but like any other couple would. I know I sound like the naive young girl in love, but he truly did care for me. Everyone was incredibly amazed at how much of a gem he was, and how lucky I was to have snagged someone who cared for incredibly for me. Overnight, after that party it changed. He did not want to be with me. We bickered, we broke up, and his 'fling' with this girl started. Now he has moved out of the apartment and is living on his mother's couch doing everything with this girl that he previously did with me. He is truly REPLACING me with her, but it's funny because they aren't dating and he refuses to date her! I'm wondering if I should wait for him to come home or move on. Do you think once the sex of this new fling ends that he will grow tired of her like he did previously? What is your take on this situation? I do not think he could have fallen out of love with me overnight, as naive as that sounds. I do think he is blinded by lust right now, as this so often happens. Should I wait for this 'honeymoon' phase of theirs to end? He still contacts me occasionally on aim, but only when she is not around. She is 17 by the way, yuck! I know I should kick this guy to the curb and move on, but love is love. I think once is finished banging this girl, he will regret it. All of his friends are shocked at how different he is acting and find him very strange and peculiar lately. What do you guys think? I should have enough respect for myself to not wait for his sorry ass, but I understand lust and have felt these feelings and questioned our relationship before, so I can partly understand his disgusting behavior. We broke up on V-day. They apparently started their 'fling' about a week after that. The reason we broke up on V-day is because I found pictures of them at a party. I am not a stupid girl. I was not played during those 3 years. He truly did care during these times. How do you fall out of love overnight for someone you apparently cared so much for? Especially to leave for someone who you refuse to date, but are only screwing? I know I am young and should be living life, ect ect ect. But I am in the time being that he is gone. I'm just wondering if I should completely give up hope. Men, and women alike give me your take on the situation. Have you heard of anything similar happen?
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