SoVicious Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 haha, if you know where my title to this thread is called then kudos to you! anyways i was feeling good today (got a date lined up this weekend), and i decided to see what the ex was up to. I hadnt talked to her in two weeks and i have no intentions of trying to get her back. She replied and we texted back and forth all day. I told her how i was changing majors and probably changing to another college. she seemed concerned, and questioned why. Later on she then asked for my help in one of her classes, and asked if i was available before this wednesday. I told her that i was busy with school and work, so unless she wants to meet late then no probably not (i knew she had a curfew of 8 at her house so I knew she couldnt meet late anyways). She then texted back and said she will ask her parents if they could make an exception. WOW! haha. somebody either really needs help in school or something is going on.... I was polite and just told her, alright let me now how that goes. I got home that night and she im'ed me, but i was away from my computer so i didnt respond. I got a call.... she wanted to play checkers online against me. I thought heh.... checkers? I agreed to play and she wanted to stay on the phone while we played. I had a great time beating her, and she kept bringing up old inside jokes that we shared. After three games I closed the game and told her I was done playing. She stayed on the phone, and the convo went like this: Her: I told you I am leaving right? Me: Yeah you told me you are moving out with your mom. Her: Yeah, but thats only temp. Im leaving. Me: Like to another state? Her: Yeah Me: Okay... What state? Her: *long pause and hesitantly answered* I am not sure. Me: You dont know where you are going? Her: I did tell you that I am leaving the first chance I get right? Her: Well.... I am going to Canada I think. Me: Do you have family there? Her: No thats the point. Her: Well I am going to go. Me: Why do you want to leave now that we got on this subject? Her: I am just going to go, bye. Now if you have read my other posts, about a month after my ex and I broke up I found out that she was hooking up with a good friend of mine that lives in Texas, I live in CA. My guess is that she is going to live with him, for I dont know what reason, its almost funny to me, and maybe thats why she was so hesitant to answer where she was going. I got a little angry at first, who wouldnt when you are betrayed this way? But I thought about it more and smiled to myself... I think she is realizing that she is losing her power of me, and this was her way of trying to get it back? Can anyone else see the reason's behind her actions today?
single Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Don't play her little games, in fact offer to buy her a ticket to whatever state or country she wants to goto then skip down the street like it's the best get out of jail card ever. Get out with the new date and have a good time life is too short that is what i have learnt from my ex and am now having a good time
Rearden Metal Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Yeah dude, she's clearly got issues and doesn't know how to cope herself. She's probably got nobody listening to her and she figures you will. Just relax and don't respond unless she comes at you in a logical, chill manner.
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