Chitowngirl Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 So I met my LDR guy for the first time this weekend. We spent Friday-Sunday together. We both agreed we wanted to see each other again, but no date was set. He said he would be busy with work the next week or so and wasn't sure on his schedule. He contacted me multiple times today, but no mention of seeing me again. When did you set up your next visit? When did you become exclusive?
aerogurl87 Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 So I met my LDR guy for the first time this weekend. We spent Friday-Sunday together. We both agreed we wanted to see each other again, but no date was set. He said he would be busy with work the next week or so and wasn't sure on his schedule. He contacted me multiple times today, but no mention of seeing me again. When did you set up your next visit? When did you become exclusive? With my ex we set up our next visit within a week of seeing each other. We decided we'd start saving up for it pronto and when we had enough funds we'd plan visit number 2. Also I was exclusive with him before we met, so we didn't need to have the exclusivity chat, same with my current guy. I just don't see the need in investing time, money, and energy into planning a trip to go see someone I'm not in an exclusive relationship with unless they are just a really good friend.
Sivok Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 We became exclusive about a month before we actually met. I booked a plane ticket to see her again the following month
Author Chitowngirl Posted March 3, 2010 Author Posted March 3, 2010 We became exclusive about a month before we actually met. I booked a plane ticket to see her again the following month Ok, how long after seeing her the first time did you decide to see her again? Did you wait a month to tell her you wanted to see her again?? I met a guy this weekend and he hasn't made plans to see me again, though he did say he'd like to see me again...
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