cg27 Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 How can women show you every emotion one day? They tell you how much they love, and need you. They will give you their all. The next day completely careless about you, show no emotion, give you nothing, and say the most hurtful things known to mankind.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Hormones? What did you do to them to prompt them to go cold? No women does something like go cold unless she was spited.
callingyouuu Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Hormones? What did you do to them to prompt them to go cold? No women does something like go cold unless she was spited. True. Or for some reason or another (that you might find ridiculous) they feel like they were spited. In either case, she's unhappy or unsure about something.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 If not situational, it's usually a sign of emotional instability or mental issues. I have experienced this with female friends who are bi-polar. It's Jekyll and Hyde. I would strongly caution getting involved with someone like this. They'll suck the life out of you.
Author cg27 Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 I did not do anything expect propose to her, and tell her I love her. We had a 2 year relationship. I bought her the 2 carat diamond she wanted. She started crying looked so happy, and said she needs time to think. Then a few days later I get nothing! I mean nothing, except a very cold shoulder. No emotion what so ever.
Woggle Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I did not do anything expect propose to her, and tell her I love her. We had a 2 year relationship. I bought her the 2 carat diamond she wanted. She started crying looked so happy, and said she needs time to think. Then a few days later I get nothing! I mean nothing, except a very cold shoulder. No emotion what so ever. Consider this a warning of what it is in store for you if you do marry her.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Get your money back on the ring. Fair warning. Drama and pain are ahead. A healthy woman does not respond to a marriage proposal like that.
calizaggy Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I did not do anything expect propose to her, and tell her I love her. We had a 2 year relationship. I bought her the 2 carat diamond she wanted. She started crying looked so happy, and said she needs time to think. Then a few days later I get nothing! I mean nothing, except a very cold shoulder. No emotion what so ever. Run.. I have dated women like this and always wondered what I did wrong, etc.. Looking back some women are just not mentally balanced.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 cg27 how was your relationship up to the proposal? Maybe she was thinking about leaving you and now that you proposed she is not strong enough to say no, so she just left
xpaperxcutx Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I did not do anything expect propose to her, and tell her I love her. We had a 2 year relationship. I bought her the 2 carat diamond she wanted. She started crying looked so happy, and said she needs time to think. Then a few days later I get nothing! I mean nothing, except a very cold shoulder. No emotion what so ever. I'm getting a Julia Roberts in " Runaway Bride" feeling. I don't know why but if a guy were to propose to me I either start calling up all friends and plan out the reception or start emotionally backing away because of the pressure and commitment.
txsilkysmoothe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 He has other threads which indicate things have been messed up between them for some time. I don't see any hope of this working out.
Author cg27 Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 Everything was going good. We had a few up's and downs. I know she wanted me to propose at Christmas time. I could see she was frustrated after it did not happen. I could see it in her eyes how bad she wanted on Valentine's Day. I came through 9 days later, and and I can say I was 99.999% sure it would be a yes. My only other thought is she was starting to shutdown, and thinking about leaving me for taking a little extra time to pop the question.
Art_Critic Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Maybe she was thinking about leaving you and now that you proposed she is not strong enough to say no, so she just left I'll go with this one.. TBV I think has it.. or I'd add that there is another man she has feelings for in the mix that you have zero clue about..
xpaperxcutx Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Everything was going good. We had a few up's and downs. I know she wanted me to propose at Christmas time. I could see she was frustrated after it did not happen. I could see it in her eyes how bad she wanted on Valentine's Day. I came through 9 days later, and and I can say I was 99.999% sure it would be a yes. My only other thought is she was starting to shutdown, and thinking about leaving me for taking a little extra time to pop the question. Going good does not involve you disappearing on her. The only reason you decided to go through with the proposal was to make her stay. You were already getting the vibe that she was about to leave you, that already told you the type of person she is, she runs away when she doesn't get her way. If a proposal is this bad, imagine being married and on a honeymoon.
Author cg27 Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 I did not propose to keep her. I proposed because I love her. She did not show me any sign of leaving. When I proposed she said she needs time to think. Also told me not to call her, not to text her, not to email her, and not to tell her I love her anymore. She said she will have to make all the contact. I told her OK, and told how 1 sided she is. She will have all the time in the world to think about it. I am bringing the ring back.
xpaperxcutx Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I did not propose to keep her. I proposed because I love her. She did not show me any sign of leaving. When I proposed she said she needs time to think. Also told me not to call her, not to text her, not to email her, and not to tell her I love her anymore. She said she will have to make all the contact. I told her OK, and told how 1 sided she is. She will have all the time in the world to think about it. I am bringing the ring back. These are all red flags. One question, have you thought about marriage were it not for her wanting to get married?
nddb Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 run, don't walk. Run for the nearest exit. This has all the signs of an impending train wreck.
Author cg27 Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 We have discussed marriage, and children for the past 6 months. We were both preparing for it.
threebyfate Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I quickly read your previous thread and now this one. To reit, six months ago the two of you were in a serious relationship and you argued.So you unilaterally pulled sex off the table and went back to dating.Then with no explanation, you disappeared for a month "I wanted to see her show me she wants it to.".Then you told her you "wanted her for Christmas" whereby she pulled.Then you told her that she ruined her chances for a proposal.Then you didn't propose to her on Valentine's Day.Then when you proposed, she needed to think about it and shut you down.In all this, could you explain to me where she had any input into the relationship? Sounds to me like you were the puppeteer. It's not surprising that she ran out of love.
Crazy Magnet Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I do whatever the voices in my head tell me to do.............
betamanlet Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 How can women show you every emotion one day? They tell you how much they love, and need you. They will give you their all. The next day completely careless about you, show no emotion, give you nothing, and say the most hurtful things known to mankind. I think they have free reign to change their minds, and you won't get much sympathy from people because apparently you're supposed to expect this and be fine with it. I've had a woman say she's madly in love with me, to being indifferent the next day, and apparently I'm the one with the problem by having a problem, "so? she changed her mind" is what you'll hear, and you are expected to be fine with that.
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