Chitowngirl Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 So I just started seeing this guy...he reveals all of his ex's, including his ex wife, were strippers and models. He admits he has made some bad choices when it came to women. I am neither a stripper nor model. I've googled his ex's and they are all gorgeous women. How would you feel if your new love interest told you all his ex's were strippers or models (and I'm not talking about high fasion respectable model-types, I'm talking about lingerie/hustler magazine modeling).
St. Nick Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 How did you google his exs? Did you type his name and then ex-girlfriends in the search engine? And maybe you're exaggerating about them being gorgeous. Most women in Chicago aren't that attractive. I've lived in the city for over a decade and they are pretty average-looking.
SomewhatExperienced Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I'm not sure how you should feel. Typically, I'd say dating those kinds of women is a huge pain in the ass for men, both the models and the strippers. I think you end up dealing with a lot of insecurities and shallowness in those relationships. He might have seen the error in his ways and wants a real, normal girl. If you like him, feel it out, but don't be surprised if this guy has issues of his own. Oh, and you might want to ask yourself, what environment does this guy put himself in to meet these "types" of women, and what does that say about his character.
Author Chitowngirl Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 How did you google his exs? Did you type his name and then ex-girlfriends in the search engine? And maybe you're exaggerating about them being gorgeous. Most women in Chicago aren't that attractive. I've lived in the city for over a decade and they are pretty average-looking. He told me their names and they are on his facebook. His ex's are not from Chicago. Why are you such an ass?
Author Chitowngirl Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 I'm not sure how you should feel. Typically, I'd say dating those kinds of women is a huge pain in the ass for men, both the models and the strippers. I think you end up dealing with a lot of insecurities and shallowness in those relationships. He might have seen the error in his ways and wants a real, normal girl. If you like him, feel it out, but don't be surprised if this guy has issues of his own. Oh, and you might want to ask yourself, what environment does this guy put himself in to meet these "types" of women, and what does that say about his character. Thank you Yes I'm waiting to see what his issues are.
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