Bob2806 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I'm new to this site and i really need some help. My ex girlfriend called it off yesterday during the weekend and i was devastated. I fell to my knees crying , then i decided to write a letter to her. telling her how i felt about her and everything i was sorry for. (she broke up with me cause i'm immature) I poured my heart into that letter. (i gave her the letter in the morning asking her to read it along with a present she gave me she says that she wants me to keep the present) Today we had class together and she never even looked at me during that time. after class we were at lunch and i decided to text her saying "do you want to talk?" she said yes and we met outside. I talked to her and she said she wanted to be friends. I asked her twice once at lunch and once through a text I asked her " do i have another chance?" she said maybe. I need help now what do i do, I am still her friend and she says i still have a chance with her. my biggest fear is that another guy will come along and take her away from me. we dated for 5 months and i loved her and she loved me. please help.
DustySaltus Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Bob, welcome to LS although I'm sorry it had to be under these circumstances. Please read the link in my signature. I you have issues you feel that you need to work on, do it for YOU not anyone else. You need to pull back from her right now and begin your healing process.
USMCHokie Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Hi Bob. First, I need to swiftly kick you in the balls. Now that that's done, read the link in Dusty's signature.
sunrae Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Ok, so now you have the crying, letter writting and pleading out of the way... Now you have to show her, you are not the type of guy to be strung along by a "maybe".... Sorry "maybe's" arent good enough.. Let her go... Move on... You deserve someone who knows they want to be with you, and not second best or a "maybe"..
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