icyness Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I just found out my ex is engaged to the girl he left me for. He just turned 23, this is his second girlfriend ever, and they haven't even known each other for 8 months. I'm shaking really hard and crying. I just want to get over him, why can't I. I don't know what to say or think. I just feel like I was broken up with all over again, I'm crushed.
Rearden Metal Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 That's some messed up ish, hun. Take solace that he's more than likely making a terrible decision, and is that the type of guy you want around?
Author icyness Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 You're right Rearden, and it's definitely not the type of guy I want around either. I can't even figure out if it's him I'm truly upset over, or that maybe I'm just shocked because I didn't think they were that serious. At least, not serious enough to get engaged when they've not even been in each others lives for a full year! I didn't think anything could get to me at this point, I was wrong.
phoenix1 Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Oh sorry....yeah that would mess me up too. But who knows how that will go...only time will tell, and there will probably be a day you are glad it wasn't you. Maybe this will help you to let go of that last piece...hang in there.
Author icyness Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 Thank you Phoenix. I've been crying on and off all day, but indeed I'm hanging in there. Just one more hurdle to get over since my break up; what can one do I suppose other than let time heal.
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