animalinthemist Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Long story short.. i been w/ this guy online for almost 2 years (this april). He keeps saying he will coem and see me but its like..he has put it off for 2x now. I was thinking its great cause i have time to go to the gym to be fit and lose 5 lbs before he comes see me but right now its like he cant even buy a ticket. We were on yahoo messenger..he said ooh i think i have enough money to get a ticket what do u think babe? and i was surprised and excited and i said gogogoog.. then he didnt say anything anymore. i mean what the ****? has this happened to anyone? i'd be happy to start moving on..i admit LDR isnt for everyone. but stringing someone along? what the heck for anyway. useless.
Meaplus3 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Yup. Been in your shoes. Meet a guy online years back.. and we talked about meeting.. and then it came down to one excuse after another. As it turns out, I believe this person had lot's to hide. You never really know who your chatting with on the other end of that keyboard. Always wise to use caution.. and don't put your heart out there to far.. cause when and if you do.. the heart break hurts. I wish you the best. Mea:)
nowomanocry Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Yup. Been in your shoes. Meet a guy online years back.. and we talked about meeting.. and then it came down to one excuse after another. As it turns out, I believe this person had lot's to hide. You never really know who your chatting with on the other end of that keyboard. Always wise to use caution.. and don't put your heart out there to far.. cause when and if you do.. the heart break hurts. I wish you the best. Mea:) Agree with Meaplus I met my X online and we decided to meet up in Spain and there it all started.. Mine was a very long flight of about 10h of travel including flight and I was there at around 2-3 am in the morning, she was there waiting for me with candles, drinks etc. She saw me getting out of the rent-a-car, ran down the stairs opened the door for me, grabbed me and dragged me inside... Felt like we were together for god knows how many years and that I was coming home from a big mission or something... For one week we had the most amazing holidays together & a LDR relationship that lasted around 3 years
aerogurl87 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Hmm, I've strung guys along kinda like this before but that was because there were major RED FLAGS that led to us never meeting. For instance, one guy told me he wanted to impregnate me which led me to run for the hills. Other than that though, if I wanted to meet someone offline, I usually went through with it. But I wouldn't wait two years to meet, my max would be a few months.
Fouts Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 has this happened to anyone? what the heck for anyway Yep, still trying to figure it out.
BettyBoop Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Wow, 2 years is a long time to wait!! I would not have waited more than 6 months... are you two both really young? If he really wanted to visit you - I'd say he would. I see that alone as a lack of commitment and probably stringing you along. :/
Mary3 Posted March 4, 2010 Posted March 4, 2010 Not wanting to meet usually means : He is married He is fugly He is fat He is broke and lives with mommy. Or worse he is a scammer trying to get you to pay for the trip He has some condition that makes him undatable and the internet is where he has romance. They will string you along as long as you allow it.
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