shelovesyou Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 my ex left me after grass is greener syndrome two and half months ago. we were really happy, booking holidays, moving in together, so, in your experience, after they think the grass is greener, do they ever come back? ever think theyve made a mistake? we were together over a year, is he over me already or is his new gf a distraction?
abdellost Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I want to know the exact same thing. After 5 years she breaks up with me via a text WITH NO HINTS. We were so happy. we had so many plans and so many things to do that week and she was just hugging me and kissing my hand. I dont get this at all..
Sadbutrelieved Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 My opinion is if someone leaves because of this once, they'll leave again. If my ex ever tries to come back, he can go F himself.
GrayClouds Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 my ex left me after grass is greener syndrome two and half months ago. we were really happy, booking holidays, moving in together, so, in your experience, after they think the grass is greener, do they ever come back? ever think theyve made a mistake? we were together over a year, is he over me already or is his new gf a distraction? It does not matter, for you deserve a person who understands the commitment of love, who is not so easily distracted, and sees relationships as not a vehicles for pleasure and excitement but rather inspiration and growth. .
Ilovecake Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Who cares if they come back! Are you really that naïve and short on self esteem that you would take someone back after he told you ‘you are not good enough for him and he's going to break your heart with ought a second thought because he found someone way better than you’. Does it really matter if he changes his mind in a year or two or three?
Odyssey Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Ditto with "it doesn't matter" as stated by others here. OP look at it this way, even if your ex does come back, it won't be the same again. You can't really start with a clean slate again because you two have this history. Put it simply the trust has gone!
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