Rainmaker21 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 (edited) Hi all, I'm new here and some advice would be greatly appreciated. I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we seem to hit off, we talked consistently everyday online via IM. She seemed really into me and I really like her. I asked her out on a date just last week and the date went pretty smoothly, we laughed and joked and had a great time. Now she warned me that she's a lot of drama and that her past relationship with her ex still bothers her to an extent. They went out for 4 years and she has been broken up with him for 9 months now. I know it's a general rule of thumb that pursuing a girl that is not ENTIRELY over her ex is a big no no, but she seemed genuinely into me, so it didn't bother me a whole lot. So the day after the date I texted her that I had a great time and hope she did as well. No response. That's ok...maybe she's busy. The following day I texted her once more...and still no response. She hadn't been online those past two days, so I thought i'd leave it at that, maybe she doesn't like me as much as I thought she did. She did mention to me in a prior conversation that she's not much of a phone person. (I know, a 23 year old girl that doesn't love to text? ) The following day she appeared online and said she was sorry for being unresponsive and MIA, and that she's dealing with some personal issues at the moment, but wouldn't give any details. I told her I understood. So yesterday I texted her that I hope everything is alright with her...no response. Since that chat though, she hasn't been online or contacted me and now it's been nearly a week with nothing. I know I should give her time and space...but a part of me thinks that maybe she could be lying and is trying to just avoid me altogether. Is she trying to avoid me? Should I try calling her to see what's up or just leave her be? Any input would be greatly appreciated. Edited March 1, 2010 by Rainmaker21
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 First off, don't use the word "pursue" unless you're talking about chasing someone down the street who just stole your bike. Men don't "pursue" women. Second, yeah she's not interested in you. Sorry
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