SadandConfusedWA Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I have this eerie feeling that there was a similar thread on this not too long ago. But anyway, please share your wisdom. Mine might sound a bit lame but it comes from a movie "He is just not that into you". "If a guy acts like he doesn't give a s#it about you, then he REALLY , GENUINELY, TRULY doesn't give a s#it".
aerogurl87 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 It's one LSer's signature on here. And it says something like "one day a person will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else before". Not really direct advice, but that sig really helped me get over my ex and realize that it just meant someone better was out there in the world for me.
MalachiX Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 "Remember, hookers are people too. Say thank you when you're done." Words I live by.
Author SadandConfusedWA Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 you guys are cracking me up.
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 How could I forget this gem, from a friend's dad years ago... "The only thing you ever need to know about women is this: girls mature faster than boys until they're about 14 or 15 years old, and then they stay that age the rest of their lives." Keeping that in mind has allowed me to understand women in a way I never would have otherwise.
harmfulsweetz Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I'm sure it's an LSer's sig, but I liked it and it made absolute sense to me. 'Never make someone a priority, when they only have you as an option.'
Woggle Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Why trade the adoration of many women for the resentment and contempt of one. This is what a player friend told me.
JamesM Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 "If it is meant to be, then it will be. Never force it."
Kamille Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 It's one LSer's signature on here. And it says something like "one day a person will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else before". Not really direct advice, but that sig really helped me get over my ex and realize that it just meant someone better was out there in the world for me. That was Art Critic's sig and it's definitely helped me along. Another one for me was: We teach others how to treat us.
aerogurl87 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 That was Art Critic's sig and it's definitely helped me along. Another one for me was: We teach others how to treat us. That was it :bunny: Yep I love that sig.
paperchase Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I'm sure it's an LSer's sig, but I liked it and it made absolute sense to me. 'Never make someone a priority, when they only have you as an option.' CaliGuy said that to me. He also said the person who is most willing to leave holds all the power.
DustySaltus Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 "I never banged a 10 but I did have five 2's one night" -George Carlin "They say if you love someone let them go and if they don't come back thet were never yours to begin with. But if they DO come back, they're yours forever" "Don't ever let someone else define who YOU are"
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 And certain men wonder why women don't respect them. I've never met any guy who particularly cared whether women respected him.
JamesM Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I've never met any guy who particularly cared whether women respected him. Hello, Barky, my names is James. Most guys I know are concerned with how all people respect them. But wait....those guys are married.
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Hello, Barky, my names is James. Most guys I know are concerned with how all people respect them. If you're not kidding, my question is: why? I only concern myself with how I can get women to do what I want them to do. If a girl is naked in my bed, whether she 'respects' me or not is rather immaterial to me.
JamesM Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 If you're not kidding, my question is: why? I only concern myself with how I can get women to do what I want them to do. If a girl is naked in my bed, whether she 'respects' me or not is rather immaterial to me. If your short term goal is an immediate lay, then your long term goals will never be achieved. LTR and marriage is about committing to the one you love for more than personal satisfaction. When you find the one you love, your goal becomes giving her (or him) as much satisfaction as she would want. And in reverse, she will give you personal satisfaction. True love seeks not to receive satisfaction but to give satisfaction. Good sex is not about receiving the climax but about giving the climax. It is not about technique but about expression. It is not just about the moment but also about the future. Good luck. And I have always liked Art's signature as well...."one day a person will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else before". To add to that... "one day that person will also make you realize that up until then all you ever had was just sex."
Jersey Shortie Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 I've never met any guy who particularly cared whether women respected him. All men care if women respect them. That's what these gender wars boil down to. Even for you. Which is clearly apparent in most of your posts. Men have a HUGE need to be respected. Women have a HUGE need to be loved. Doesn't mean that men don't want to be loved and women don't want to be respected. It means that a man feels loved when he is respected and a women feels respected when she is loved. Doth does protest too much.
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 All men care if women respect them. Any line that starts with "All men.." or "All women.." is wrong. Your posts are unenlightened.
Left in a Lurch Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Best advice I got was to never take dating advice from a woman. I think they mean well but I have found out it to be true that their advice to men on how to handle other women is usually the opposite of what you should really do. I'm sure it works both ways too, no need for anyone to point that out.
Jersey Shortie Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Any line that starts with "All men.." or "All women.." is wrong. Your posts are unenlightened. Message board techniquality that people love to throw around instead of talking about the subject at hand. You know what I say is true.
wheream_i Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 A long time ago, a friend of mine said this to some girl he treated like crap yet she kept coming back for more: "As long as there are girls like you, there will always be guys like me." Not exactly dating advice but something I like to think about when women complain about the guy they are seeing not treating them right.
Barky Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 You know what I say is true. Uh yea.. a less-than-effective debating method. Otherwise the posts here are good. It's true a man should never take dating advice from women, unless they are super-dude-loving chicks who are truly interested in getting him laid. Ah! Brings to mind another one I heard. Some 20-something chick was on the Tom Leykis show years ago and was giving out advice. She said, and it blew me away at the time: "A woman wants to be your number one, not your only one." Which goes along with: "Women attract women." and: "The more women you have, the more women you'll get." All kind of the same principle.
TouchedByViolet Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 This quote gave me a new perspective and hope. "It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives."
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