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Ugh, just got back from a date.

 

I have placed all my eggs in one basket with this one. I got my self too caught up in this girl, that I ignored all the rest.

 

This is the girl who is really beautiful, a family friend introduced us... we watched a musical today and had dinner afterward. The thing is, I knew from talking to her through online, her personality and mine didn't click. She was really dull, then I talk to her on the phone, pretty much that same, I keep thinking to myself "how can someone just have no personality?" I sat there, and our conversation never flows...

 

When I saw her in person, just the same, I felt nothing from her, I felt nothing from me. And the past 2 weeks i've been working myself up for this one, now I am disappointed that it fizzled, but I knew like 50% that something was wrong. I haven't set myself up with these high expectations, get worked up and have it fail so hard.

 

Towards the end, i started asking really dumb questions... i knew this wasn't getting anywhere, but yet I didn't want to end, I am just so physically attracted to this person. I need to get my priorities straight. This shouldn't have happened... I'm smarter than this.

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It just happens sometimes dude. There just simply isn't that chemistry that you need for a relationship.. But did you get any vibe about how she felt?

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It just happens sometimes dude. There just simply isn't that chemistry that you need for a relationship.. But did you get any vibe about how she felt?

 

I kind of got some vibe from her at the beginning. I mean online she seemed sorta interested. But I should have known better... I was only attracted to her physically, and nothing else, but I ignored the fact, and pushed too hard in my head to make it work.

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