chloe1408 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 its been 2 and a half months why is he happy with her whilst im breaking down i guess the grass is greener he will never hhurt like i have i have never felt so alone in my life.
Rearden Metal Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 He's happy because you're not. If you were happy, he'd be looking at you going "Why the heck is she so happy?" So that's what we gotta do, make ourselves happy people! It's the ONLY option!
jerrytodd Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 its been 2 and a half months why is he happy with her whilst im breaking down i guess the grass is greener he will never hhurt like i have i have never felt so alone in my life. Chloe, I feel so sorry for you, I hope you are keeping NC? You dont need to know how well or poorly he is doing. That is a killer and keeps the hurt continuing. It will heal over time. Read more posts on here - you are not alone.
icyness Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 *big hugs* to you Chloe. Like Jerry said, no matter how much you feel you want to, do not let yourself see what is going on with him. I can't tell you how much I've regretted looking at my ex's FB or something. It only hurts you more; please do whatever you can to keep yourself occupied and do good things for you. Unfortunately, it does seem like they'll never sympathize with us unless/until it happens to them. Like it's been stated before, The dumpers check out long before actually breaking it off with us. They cannot begin to contemplate what we're going through, nor do they really care. Their needs are being and that's all that matters to them. I know it feels like you're alone, please know you're not. We're all here for you and know just how you feel. Keep posting, and hang in there. xo
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