ricky72361 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 A girl I'd been seeing broke it off with me about a month ago. It caught me off guard and she said the movie The Last Kiss convinced her we would never work. She told me that she didn't find me attractive, and that she thought if she spent more time with me she thought she could grow more attracted to me. That one hurt, but I got over it. I remembered that more attractive girls had been into me, so it couldn't be my looks, it was her. Anyways, I talked to her, thought everything was all good until she started giving me the cold shoulder. She made up my mind for me, so I stopped talking to her completely. We have class together and I didn't speak to her. Nothing on Valentine's Day, nothing. Last Monday she asked me how my conference was, and I told her about it. We've exchanged pleasantries since then, but that's about it. On Friday I walked into my friend's birthday party and she was there. I said hi to everyone hugs all around, being my normal self. I saw her, didn't say much of anything, because she started talking to me. I then went outside to make a phone call, because I was going to another party. She came outside and said "So you can't say hi to me? You said hi to everyone else, but you can't say hi to me?" I looked at her and asked her if she was being serious. At this point she gets angry and tries to make an argument that I'm a douchebag. I told her that she was the one who was a complete bitch to me and she is the reason I no longer speak to her. She told me she didn't remember being a cunt. She got angry and said "I just wish things were the way they used to be, it's just messed up that we can't go back." and I shrugged my shoulders. That's about the moment she went inside and went to the bathroom with her friend, crying. I left, because I didn't feel like dealing with her ****. About an hour later, I got a text that read "I'm sorry for earlier. I'm just hurt. You weren't the only one who lost something." I told her I understood how she felt, but that I didn't appreciate her approach. she sent some text back and I ignored it. She then texted me at around 2:30 in the morning asking if I was up, and called 5 minutes later. I ignored both. I haven't spoken to her since. Seriously, what is wrong with this bitch?
LucreziaBorgia Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 She needs to know that you are devastated by what she did, and that you are desperate to have her back. Her ego just can't believe that you would do the emotional equivalent of shrugging, saying.. 'eh, whatever' and moving on. What to do? Honestly, I'd just write her off and be done with her. Oh, and I'd be out there dating as well.
alphamale Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Seriously, what is wrong with this bitch? shes a typical female
allina Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 what is wrong with this bitch? shes a typical female :mad:
Rearden Metal Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Seeeee!!! Don't you guys see?! Ricky has acted EXACTLY in the manner that a dumped guy should act. Sh*t, this is how I'm going to act towards my ex. Indifferent, self respecting and above all the drama. Good on you, man. Now... my turn.
Iamthedouglas Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Not much to say except good job. It's what happens when you break up. Besides, because a movie convinced you? Not to be rude, but how incredibly focused on media do you have to be to feel a movie needs to run your relationship? Is she insane? Is she unable to make a relationship work without actors playing it out? It's perfectly understandable what you did, that's the good attitude. A movie *scoff* how asinine. Others, take his advice, stay away from your ex.
jjhart Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Brother, i replay my situation in my head, and think about if i had acted the way you did, and goddamn i would have felt a whole hell of a lot better. Hopefully i can be that self confident next time(hell, hopefully there is NOT a next time...). Mine told me we are on different pages, and then was dumbfounded when i asked her what page she was on.... Sounds like you had a crazy one that hasnt grown up yet..... Well played...
Author ricky72361 Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 maybe she wasn't attracted to your potty mouth! She curses more than I do.
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