electricvanilla Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 I went over to my boyfriend’s house for dinner and after we were watching tv and all of a sudden he’s like ‘hmm…I don’t know what it is, but I am pretty tired’ *& the plan was for me to stay over bc everyone is out of town and didn’t want to stay home alone* He turns his back to me and I guess goes to sleep…after the next show ended…I decided to just leave and go home. I wasn’t tired at all…it was only midnight. As I am about to sneak off without waking him, he gets up and ASKS if I want him to walk me to my car...he norm just does it. As we get to the front door he exclaims ‘Wow…you are leaving at a time when it’s still early and late enough for me to go out’ I was like…you mean to party and such? & he replied yes. Hugs me and closes the door. Idk…but I feel like he was pretending to be tired so I could leave and he could go out? Why would he even mention that after saying how tired he is…if anything he just napped for 25mins. We have been dating for a long while and just recently became ‘official’. The whole night he was acting different…when he was awake I noticed him staring at me from the side & when I would look at him and smile he would give a faint smile. This happened multiple times. The way he looked at me or touched me have changed as well. This happened pretty much overnight & I don’t understand why? He said he’s not mad at me & that nothing is wrong….but his actions say different. Something is off. Anyone have some insight? This is my first bf…I have nothing to compare it to. Idkk, just venting. Do you think he did something…like cheated and feels guilty?? Maybe I an just overthinking? *Also, a few days ago when he was introducing me to some friends of his parents he said I was a ‘friend’ and afterwards said he forgot I was his girlfriend. *Went to a coffee shop & bumped into some old female friends of his & all of a sudden found the place to be crowded so we went to his car to have our drinks. *Doesn’t invite me out clubbing with his friends & tells me about it later
Author electricvanilla Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 No, this is how it ends. lol...as in me ending it? Or has it already ended and I am now just a pawn in the game...
artchick88 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 Sorry to tell you but these are really bad signs. I would not put up with this behavior. He should not be your boyfriend because... he doesn't want to be! It should've ended at a fling. Get out now before you get too involved in the drama. He is a d-bag and def not a "real" boyfriend to you.
spriggig Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 I hope you find the courage to follow through with the advice you've found here. Try to do it gracefully and without anger, for your own sake. Good luck.
RedDevil66 Posted March 5, 2010 Posted March 5, 2010 This is not a sign of anything. Women just read too much into every move If anything, he seems immature. Let it go
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