Konflikt21 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 First off, Hi to you all on this board my name is Andy 25yrs old from the UK. Here is my story, i met this girl in November 2009, we moved in together just before christmas, and everything was going great, but just recently she went all hot and cold on me, this brought me down becuase she wouldnt talk to me and I thought I was the problem, then about two weeks ago she said we need to talk, she broke down gave me a hug and said she couldnt cope with life, work etc. And she freely admitted sshe was pushing people she loves and cares about away, so being the loving boyfriend I talked to her, and said would space make you better? she said she didn't know, so last week I had the week off work (we work together btw) and she text me once within the week stating she lost her phone and was using her old one, which I thought was a bit odd considering she says she still wants to be with me, problem is she is temporarily running the pub where we work, and i'm afraid the power has gone to her head, it's really getting me down, i am usually stronger than this, a lot of people keep saying your a top bloke, with a heart of gold, you deserve better, problem is I have that nagging voice at the back of my head telling me to stick by her and things will be how they used to be, I have gotto return to get the rest of my stuff tomorrow morning, she wont be there, she will be at the other pub, but stupid me, with one last roll of the dice has wrote her a letter and left it on her bed, basically saying this is your last chance and this needs to happen etc. Which is only fair. So we will see if i get a response later. The thing is there is a 7 yr age gap too, and I appriciate she is still young, I just don't know what has gone wrong. Could you please share your thoughts please guys and girls. Regards, Andy
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