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Women can be so spiteful sometimes...

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bananaboat11 Established Member

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I'm out at the bars 2 nights ago to meet up with some friends of mine... and boom..

 

this girl i knew during undergrad appears out of nowhere. she is smart. she is very attractive, but i've just never been into her. throwing that out there now.

 

i always suspected she had a thing for me. during undergrad.. like 2-4 years ago... i don't recall precisely... i was dating/in the opening stages of a LTR with her neighbor. the sex was incredible... i'll put it this way... quick story.

 

So i played dIAA intercollegiate football. she stayed over my place.. so instead of meeting up with my buddies who played with me, but no longer on the team or family members of the team, girlfriends, etc, etc.. i met up with her friends. which was totally fine. i bought us burgers, alcohol etc for her and me. I really liked this girl, i was ok with it. we had such a great time... went into the game. met up with my friends (her request) which made me happy. We're in the game... and jumps on my lap and shouts out that I'm making her wet... granted my hand is on her lap as she puts hers on me ;) let's just say looking in her eyes I couldn't stand up right away ;)

 

she blurted this outloud in front of friends and misc family members of my buddies from the team. we were going to meet up with people afterwards and have a post-tailgaiting party... nope. this girl and me went back to my place... for the entire night. yes, the sex was incredible.

 

ANYHOW, back to issue at hand... where was I? oh, right! So I suspected she had a thing for me... I assume, women talk. These girls were neighbors... yadda yadda yadda...

 

so I see her in the bar 2 nights ago... we're talking it's nice and all... and she's with friends. i meet her friends.. one of which was a birthday girl AND a grad student AND jewish.. and REALLY cute.. and I took interest right away. I think this girl I knew noticed....

 

pretty much all night she was very close to me when we were talking and flirtatious... no, i didn't make a move. not into her.

 

the girl's friend who we'll just call bday girl invited me to her house last night for her party... i had just bought her and a few of her friend's a shot. We made a toast, etc... I was about to say, "I'd love to", BUT... moments earlier I told this girl I knew from undergrad that I may go to a party the next night... and she blurts that out. "Oh, Rob can't... he's going to another party tomorrow night."

 

I was so pissed. No way to recover from that. I tried to talk to bday girl, but to no avail, I couldn't get this other girl away... she's a sweetheart and all, but no....

 

bday girl said she'd facebook me (I know that sounds sketchy, but she's facebooking me.. that's better than me hitting her up I presume... we'll see if that happens and where it goes)

 

Anyhow... went back to my friends and took off the night. Stayed at my best friend's b/c she thought her boyfriend was breaking up with her that night... (no we didn't hook up or anything. I slept on the couch. was there to be supportive like a friend should!)

 

ugh. I hope bday girl contacts me... she's sooooooo attractive... a grad student too... jewish... funny... intelligent (from what I perceive)... and witty. And her eyes and smile..

 

I think this is the first time I've been infatuated and I don't even remember what her body looks like. I think she's fit. but I don't know why.. I don't care.

WTF @ ME?

 

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DAMNIT OLD FRIEND FROM UNDERGRAD. :mad:

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skydiveaddict Established Member

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The whole thing is just a big mess Banana.. But I would go after the B-day girl

alphamale Established Member

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i don't understand whats going on here

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The whole thing is just a big mess Banana.. But I would go after the B-day girl

 

 

I'm with Skydiveaddict.

TheLoneSock Established Member

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i don't understand whats going on here

 

Neither do I. That was a whole lot of information that led no where.

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Bananaboat goes to a party, meets a girl who liked him in the past but he slept with her neighbor. Fast forward, she meets him at a party and likes him again and he likes someone who is in her groups of friends but *not her* for the SECOND TIME.

 

"Angry that she's got getting Bananaboat's attention" girl cockblocked him by saying that he had plans when cute birthday Jew asked him to go to a party.

 

I'd be pissed if someone blocked me from hanging out with someone I liked, too. That was immature of her. There are more fish in the sea girl.

 

You should facebook birthday Jew, and see what happens! :)

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how does religion play into this??

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I'm trying to figure out what stopped bananaboat from saying something like "there's no reason why I can't go to both parties, so sure, I'll be there, especially since it's your party".

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I'm trying to figure out what stopped bananaboat from saying something like "there's no reason why I can't go to both parties, so sure, I'll be there, especially since it's your party".

 

Maybe it was shock at the blatant, uncalled for cockblock that the girl had the audacity to administer. It would probably take me a few seconds to recover from that.

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Maybe it was shock at the blatant, uncalled for cockblock that the girl had the audacity to administer. It would probably take me a few seconds to recover from that.
Perhaps but it's something he could recover from a little later, by isolating the bday girl and having an aside convo with her. This way, he can set the stage, so she knows he's interested in her.

 

Isn't one of the female equivalents to cockblock, twat stop?

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Perhaps but it's something he could recover from a little later, by isolating the bday girl and having an aside convo with her. This way, he can set the stage, so she knows he's interested in her.

 

Isn't one of the female equivalents to cockblock, twat stop?

 

Yeah, I guess he could have said something later.

 

Twat Stop? AWESOME!!! :lmao:

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how does religion play into this??

 

 

BB is Jewish and would like to meet a Jewish lady.

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Haha.. now I'm caught up on what's going on.....

 

So basically you are waiting for bday girl to contact you because you really like her... right????

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Haha.. now I'm caught up on what's going on.....

 

So basically you are waiting for bday girl to contact you because you really like her... right????

 

 

she was drunk that night... it'd be creepy for me to contact her first... no?

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she was drunk that night... it'd be creepy for me to contact her first... no?

 

No, I don't think that it would be creepy at all if you were sweet and respectful about saying Hello.

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I agree that it's not creepy. Just hit her up on Facebook with "Am I still invited to your party?".

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I agree that it's not creepy. Just hit her up on Facebook with "Am I still invited to your party?".

 

 

her party was last night...

 

...and what would I say?

 

"Hey, had fun the other night meeting you through (FRIEND) & (FRIEND). Hope you had a good birthday. Maybe you'd be up to hanging out sometime? Let me know. -Rob"

 

????????????

 

that sounds so ridiculously stupid =/

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"Hey, had fun the other night meeting you through (FRIEND) & (FRIEND). How did your party go? -Rob"

 

This is a lead-in, to more convo.

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"Hey, had fun the other night meeting you through (FRIEND) & (FRIEND). How did your party go? -Rob"

 

This is a lead-in, to more convo.

 

 

sounds good, but she was drunk... i hope she remembers...

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That's why you don't ask her out right away. If she doesn't respond, she doesn't remember. If she responds, it can lead into more convo, then when you get a feel of her when she's sober and still like what you're reading, you can get her phone number.

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Eh, why not... thanks =)

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You're welcome. Good luck!

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You're welcome. Good luck!

 

 

Done =)

 

I'll probably keep this updated with her response and/or if she adds me back heh...

 

we'll see.

 

thanks again 3bF. =)

 

hopefully she responds in kind =)

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This is why I hate facebook...

 

 

I see on my profile page she did add me... now I look creepy. I hope she read that message. I saw my inbox was spammed with 3 messages... none from her.

 

All from group messages....

 

we shall see....

 

otherwise i'll just defriend her and move on with my awesome life.

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Bananaboat goes to a party, meets a girl who liked him in the past but he slept with her neighbor. Fast forward, she meets him at a party and likes him again and he likes someone who is in her groups of friends but *not her* for the SECOND TIME.

 

"Angry that she's got getting Bananaboat's attention" girl cockblocked him by saying that he had plans when cute birthday Jew asked him to go to a party.

:)

 

Why all the games? Why did you not just say that night no, I am going to go to the B-party? So much passivity...BB you said you use to play football, then you should know if your getting block you go around, over it or through the block.

 

Alphamale give him some of your vitamins:p

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