Sadbutrelieved Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 After agonizing for two weeks, then a week of bleah, who cares, I took a first step toward getting my life back after the breakup. I'm starting bellydance classes tomorrow I took a class before way before I met my ex, but it was over an hour away, and this one is ten minutes from my house. I can't wait! I'm also contemplating attending a meetup for one of my hobbies. I realize my ex is a complete loser and any feelings I was having that made it hard to accept the breakup were being wasted on him. I am all about me for the first time in almost nine years.
leoine Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Good job! Agreed that just doing anything really puts your mind off things. And dancing/workout makes you happy from the endorphins, not to mention it gets you pretty sexy. And i realised during that time, that I'd lost my own life in the relationship - well that's not going to happen next time .
Author Sadbutrelieved Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 I'm not going to let it happen again either I'll be damned if I'm going to waste any more time sitting around thinking about that *******. I had an active and fun social life before I met him and I can have one again. Here's to both of us getting our lives back
annxxdisaster Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 I'm not going to let it happen again either I'll be damned if I'm going to waste any more time sitting around thinking about that *******. I had an active and fun social life before I met him and I can have one again. Here's to both of us getting our lives back I just noticed your from Wisconsin! As am I. I too, am in belly dancing classes in Wisconsin.
Author Sadbutrelieved Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 I just noticed your from Wisconsin! As am I. I too, am in belly dancing classes in Wisconsin. Nice to meet you, fellow bellydancer I took a class in Wauwatosa a few years ago, before I met ex, and it was so much fun I must try it again.
annxxdisaster Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Nice to meet you, fellow bellydancer I took a class in Wauwatosa a few years ago, before I met ex, and it was so much fun I must try it again. I'm from Wausau. But man, Tosa is really close to where I live right now--which would be Milwaukee.
Author Sadbutrelieved Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 I just returned from my first lesson, and it was so much fun. When we had to introduce ourselves and say why we were there I said I recently lost 240 pounds of nasty boyfriend and am getting my groove back. I got an ovation and felt instantly at home. I'm so glad I decided to stop looking back and start looking forward.
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