Lucy_b Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Okay so i been split for a month and a bit from my gf. this was her choice not mine but I excepted it and moved on I give her many chances to work it out. But she wants me to be the same with out the relationship status she wants me yet I do commitment I do not wish to be a F**k Buddy During this time I have been single I found myself wanting to get to know someone else as they catch my eye and I dismissed them many years ago even though she asked me out for coffee date once I did not think anything of it. I went all no contact on her I changed my phone number changed my email blocked on facebook and any other network site. My ex knows I am intrested in someone else as I told her the truth and that latter on I would be out so I would not be able to talk to her on the house phone I will be at the pub with my friends She thought I was going to meet the new woman I might like all I want to do is get to know her. but I was not I was meeting friends. Latter on while i was still at the pub i nipped outside for a ciggeret where my ex gf was parked in the car Am I going to have trouble?
Explorer Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Okay so i been split for a month and a bit from my gf. this was her choice not mine but I excepted it and moved on I give her many chances to work it out. But she wants me to be the same with out the relationship status she wants me yet I do commitment I do not wish to be a F**k Buddy During this time I have been single I found myself wanting to get to know someone else as they catch my eye and I dismissed them many years ago even though she asked me out for coffee date once I did not think anything of it. I went all no contact on her I changed my phone number changed my email blocked on facebook and any other network site. My ex knows I am intrested in someone else as I told her the truth and that latter on I would be out so I would not be able to talk to her on the house phone I will be at the pub with my friends She thought I was going to meet the new woman I might like all I want to do is get to know her. but I was not I was meeting friends. Latter on while i was still at the pub i nipped outside for a ciggeret where my ex gf was parked in the car Am I going to have trouble? That's for you to decide. Aren't you in control of yourself? If there's no chance of getting back with your ex, you need to move on. Meanwhile, I would highly recommend not involving yourself in any other relationship until you heal from the previous. You wouldn't keep picking a scab open that hasn't healed, would you? Good luck.
sagetalk Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 I would be grossly insulted by what she said to you. You are good enough to have sex with, but not good enough for a relationship? I'd say this girl needs to be removed from your life quickly. Go find a girl that wants to have sex with you and be your girl. This kind of thinking will keep your head clear and your face smiling .
Author Lucy_b Posted February 27, 2010 Author Posted February 27, 2010 I dont want to get back with her that is the the thing. I am lookin for something else. But to turn up to a place im at when she says she wants nothing to do with me other than sex to see if i am really there or if im with the other woman i want to get to know is a bit extream.
Author Lucy_b Posted February 27, 2010 Author Posted February 27, 2010 when I was with her i was nothing else but suportive she could go hang out where she liked work overtime still be herself no change and i did not try to change her at all and see me when she could or wanted to she had freedom I would never try to change a person it works or it dose not work. yet when we broke up she became very cliny on keepin me in her life i opted to be friends this was impossible. at one point she stoped me from leaving her room and chased me all the way back to my house in the snow and when i got home she was in my room. i am trying to distance myself i want to meet someone else who wants what i have to give and i want her to be happy and do what she likes but i do not want when i meet someone new to have her still doing the same things which is why i made this post cuase i am wonderin if i am goin to have trouble when i am with someone new.
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