mortensorchid Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 I gave into my insecurities the other night and decided since I hadn't heard from him since last Saturday night's date, I would give him a call. He picked up, we talked for all of five minutes if that. He said he was shoveling snow outside and was taking a break. He said he had plans that night to go over to his buddy's house, which is his usual Friday night thing, for a few drinks. I didn't get to say anything else because he said he was quite cold from shoveling the snow and he was headed inside. Didn't get a call back from him. I'm depressed, he's not interested anymore and I'm making plans without him.
Lucy_b Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 ditch him love you can do so much better he did not even bother to talk to you that is rude and what gose around comes around
spiderowl Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 If he's not been in touch for more than two days, forget him. He's not that interested and you don't want to be hanging on for someone half-hearted. If he's interested, he'll be in touch and lots. You will find someone like that, honest, it's just a waiting game. We are all molecules bumping against each other in the game of life, some stick and some don't. It's nothing personal.
shadowplay Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 I agree with others. After being with a guy who's genuinely interested, it becomes really obvious to you what a guy acts like when he's only half-arsing it. It also becomes clear that there's no sense in tolerating the latter because there are guys out there who will never make you feel unwanted.
2sunny Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 you are correct. if he were interested he would have: called you talked longer asked you out asked what YOU have been up to offered a way to comfort you (after understanding that you may be depressed) been upbeat would have been shoveling YOUR snow instead of his i could go on and on about how he's selfish and not into you. get busy being busy and happy without him.
Author mortensorchid Posted February 27, 2010 Author Posted February 27, 2010 Thank you everyone for your insights. It's a shame, I really liked him and had hope that this was going to go someplace. Back to the drawing board I guess.
Satisfaction Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 sounds like he is brushing you off. Hope you meet someone who is worth it soon! Time to dig out the organic salad :)
Author mortensorchid Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 You all will be happy to know that I went out on Saturday night without him, and I have deleted his numbers from my cell. I am closing the book and moving on to someone / something else. Feel better today.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Sorry girl, But he's not making no effort to call or see you... let him go while its still early... You will find someone better... don't dwell on why this guy isn't interested , when you could be out meeting Mr. Right..
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