prach138 Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 I have been on this forum before, http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t221163/ Things have gone from bad to worse. We continued to speak and everytime we did things just went south again. We are on strict no contact because she noticed that I was speaking with other women on my FB page. Nothing sexual or suggestive was said to these women, they were just conversations. I could still understand why she was upset though. She came to my house that next day and dropped off everything I have ever given her or that she kept of mine. She then kissed me and left and we havent spoken since except for an email I sent her in which I explained that I wasn't trying to move on or replace her and that the impact that she has made on my life is incredibly significant to me. I saw her face book page tonight and she has a post up that made me feel horrible and made me look like the most sleazy person on earth that doesn't give a damn about her. It just felt horrible to read this. What should I do right now? Keep with the NC? Talk to her? I feel like everything is ruined all because I was looking out for her feelings in the long run. Thanks for reading and for your input, it is greatly appreciated.
bldykes Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Thats tough. I hate Facebook, because it is too tempting to look at the ex and what she is up to. I looked at mine the other day and she has pics up partying with friends. I wonder if her friends are posting pics on her site on purpose. In your case, I would say do nothing. Be the better person. I bet she will recognize her mistake when you don't respond. It is like NC.....responding will only push her away and make her think she was right.....I have found out recently when a girl says she is angry, it can last a lifetime...... Good luck
curiousnycgirl Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Let me guess you guys are young right? FB seems to be the ruin of many relationships between young people. Frankly the posting of negative stuff about an ex is simply ridiculous. Why does everyone feel the need to air dirty laundry. If you were so sleazy then why did she date you? What is she saying about herself? I suggest you take the high road here and maintain NC. Do not sink to her level by responding at all, in fact delete her as a friend entirely and move on with your life.
bananaboat11 Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 It's better to be hated than forgotten...
Recommended Posts