kyta Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 What am i doing! tonite i was sat at home when the ex tx me asking what i was doin, i tx back that i had just got in, so she tx's me to come to town to the club we use to go to! so like a idiot what dio i do! yup you got it, i got changed and went and met her, she was ok came up to me and gave me a kiss and a cuddle, we stayed together with some other ppl for a cpl hours, she didnt ignore me but was a little distant with me, but not to the point of being uncomfortable, it was strange as the ppl we was wiv know we are not together any more so she didnt want to show to much to them, i didnt hang on to her while we were out i did go mingle with others, between us we know 70% of the ppl in the club, any way i decided to play it cool and said i was going, she ok gave me a hug and i left! but now i wondr why i went, why she asked me out, it just seems like mind games, yet i feel like im playing them to, ah man am i screwed up?
Ronni_W Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Maybe you went with the (false) hope that she'd be all lovey-dovey, wanting to reconcile and begging, "Please take me back?" ? If so, it's excellent that you went -- now you know that it didn't happen and it ain't gonna happen. You got the information that you need to be able to just say 'no' to her and reject any invitation you may receive from her in the future. It's another step forward, yes?
Author kyta Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 I didnt go with expectations of getting back with her, she nice to me in many ways when we were alone she was like she use to be when we was together, i dont know why i went really, i knew i shouldnt, but was curious of why she invited me out, today she tx's me all day giving me breadcrumbs, saying things like, there will be a future, that she neva gonna let go, and there is a happy ending, i fall for it everytime, i pull back she reels me back in, i just dont know what im doing and why im doing it!
Duwaditi2 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 What else were you going to do that nite. Sit at home alone?.. Sounds like you not only was courious but bored. It is flattering to get the invite. Really what did you have to lose by going. Take the invite and just look at it as an opportunity to get out and if that person isn't paying attention maybe someone else is and you have a chance to meet that person that is a better match for you.
Duwaditi2 Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Maybe your wondering if she is just playing hard to get. If your interested, text her for a date - just the 2 of you. If she can't make that happen then you are probably just friends. She's still hanging on just for the attention. If she's using you for the attention use her back for the social networking. Just remember to keep your feelings for her at arms length. Don't fall into it if she starts paying attention to you when someone else is looking interested in you.
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