Getting_stronger Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Yep have to agree here- have the decency to treat her like a person- not a receiver of technical information. So sick of technology giving people a tool to enable their laziness!!!
lunar_rabbit Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 Call or face to face, definitely. Even if you only met with this person once or twice, you should still treat them with courtesy. It certainly doesnt matter if sex was involved or not. I think the only time when DD is acceptable is for LDRs where your principal means of communication was email or text in the first place, and even then you should probably think about calling.
Sadbutrelieved Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 granted, my relationship was different than yours...the fact that he wasn't man enough to face me for whatever reasons when he wanted to break up with me, made me feel really worthless and disrespected. like the time we spent together was a huge joke, especially since he wasn't able to man up and drop me in a more humane and respectable manner.you can get the job done either way, but in person is the way to do it. That's how I felt too, like our 8 years together was a huge joke to him when he cheated and blasted his new relationship on FB. I was blindsided and thought he owed me way more than that. I was humiliated that our mutual friends saw it. Ours was an LTR though...I think after 5 or 6 dates a phone call might do the trick without being horrible for the other person, but definitely not a text message.
Brightmoon Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 What is it you want to do Alpa? Punish her for not giving you sex? Or to finish with her respectfully (to yourself as well as to her....) You forget that showing her respect and manning up means self respect too. What is it you want to achieve here?
TheLoneSock Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 A call is fine. Face to face isn't warranted. Many LONG term relationships don't even end face to face. I see it as more deserving of a text, but you're not obligated to do it in person.
Author alphamale Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 Alpha male what on earth makes you think sex is the only measure of a connection or feelings between two people? because that is MY criteria for a dating scenario I think the only time when DD is acceptable is for LDRs where your principal means of communication was email or text in the first place, and even then you should probably think about calling. we mostly communicated by text message with a phone call once a week What is it you want to achieve here? to get rid of her after i decided i didn't want to see her any more I see it as more deserving of a text, but you're not obligated to do it in person. thats what i did, what is done is done and i wouldnt' change a thing
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