brokenheart26 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 ok so me and my bf were together for 8 months and alot happened in those 8 months including i got pregnant it was the first time for the both of us so we were scared but happy because we love eachother so at 3 months i lost the baby it was devastating but a good thing too because we were not finacially stable so we were planning on moving in together even tho we never spent the night apart maybe 2 times in the whole relationship...but we were fighting alot and i starting saying we need space and i dont know about being together but honestly i didnt plan on going anywhere and i was going through a rough time its not easy to loose a baby and i also am having a hard time finding a job so theres just alot of crap going on in my life so i think i might have been taking it out on him but still i was a good gf i did everything for him anything he needed i did i always put him first...and not to mention i was the only girl he ever brought around his family and that was a major thing to him So 2 weeks ago thats when everything changed he hurt himself at work and was so depressed about it and then we had the biggest fight and i said we need time apart he was sad and said cant we just talk about it i said no and hung up on him...so about 5 hours later i felt so bad and missed him because we never spent that much time apart except when he was at work...and at first he said come over then he was like ya know what ill just talk to you tomorow...i was like in shock because he never would say that to me he always wanted to be with me and i ended up crying and begging him to see me and he was just like no im sick of the fighting and i ended up there anyways but he was diffrent like he didnt care and he said he didnt care about anything anymore well for the next 3 days i waited on him hand and foot i was supper nice and all he did was give me an attitude like he didnt care and he kept saying we need space and the more he said it the more scared i got because i love him so deeply hes my best friend...so the folling tuesday a week and half ago he broke up with me completly and has been being the biggest ******* ever since he dont even want to see me hes acting like a diffrent person hes told me he dont feel the same ..but how could you go from loving me so much and 2 weeks later not wanting that person in your life...i know i was a bitch and i know i pushed for this but i never would have done it i wasnt that bad of a gf i never cheeted i did everything for him so why is he doing this to me im so dpressed without him it makes me sick to think he could be with someone else.......what do i do please help...i not only lost my bf but i lost my best friend
MovinOnStrong Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Please click one of the Quick Reply icons in the posts above to activate Quick Reply.
MovinOnStrong Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 You're not going to stop thinking about him because you spent a lot of time with him. But start thinking that about how wrong he was to hurt you, who cares if he's with someone else. He sure didn't know how to treat you right so let someone else take his bad treatment. Focus on his bad qualities and the reasons you need to move on. Do something different each day so your routine changes and doesn't focus on the routine you had with him. It's hard but you have to tell yourself he doesn't deserve you. He's the one missing out because he doesn't have you.
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