joel Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 what would you do if your dating a girl and on the second date she agrees and you guys do have sex on the second date at a motel. the first date we met at a coffee shop for half hour. this girl i met off the online dating. i never had a girl who let me have sex with her so fast after meeting her for the first time and then msn chat and meet up at hotel the followwing week for sex. and thats all we did on the second date was motel and sex. we went out after the 2nd date and walked around would you see her as a long term gf or potential. other stuff shes like- ask me to shave my head, change and get a new clothes, asks me to give her restaurant food(i work as a chef). this is after meeting and going out with the girl on the 2nd date. she also told me she wants her bf to buy her clothes / or jewelry and i asked why ,and she said thats a way she nows her bf cares about her. also told me all her exs or guys she dated whenever they go out it has always been dutch. when we went out it was dutch also. shes in her early 30s and has never been in a relationship, but told me when we were in the motel-how i better not just be a booty call since she had that happen to her before and i better not be a one nighter guy since she had that happen to her before and she didnt like it. she seems interested as she always texting me and asking me to change my cell phone plan so she could talk on the phone more with me. not sure why she evevn likes me, since most of the girls i met off online dating has been one date for coffee and they never want to hear from me again.
Explorer Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 she also told me she wants her bf to buy her clothes / or jewelry and i asked why ,and she said thats a way she nows her bf cares about her. ..........
Author joel Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 Not only she is looking for a boyfriend but she is looking for someone who is willing to spoil her with clothes and gifts on a second date? Caring someone is more than just buying her clothes jewelry. Caring for someone should come from within like you care about her personal well being, how she feels and if she is safe. Buying things for her in occasion is fine but this is NOT the only way to show you care about her. I honestly think you should go on a few more dates with her and see what she really expect out of this. She might just be looking for someone to feed her food and buy her clothes. Why would she wants to change you on the second date...telling you to shave and change your cellphone plans. She should like YOU for who you are... What does she do for work? Most of the girls i know would not sleep with the guy on their second date and ask the guy to buy her clothes and jewelry. Best Wishes! shes like a medical office clerk and makes decent money. she went to college for 7 months
Twenty-ten Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 She goes dutch on dates, but expects presents and things from men because it means they care, she has never had a long term relationship at 30 and had sex with you at a motel on date 2 but expects this to not be a booty call? Ok she has no clue where she stands and thinks she is control of herself. Mental case. But more importantly very low self esteem she feels she has no self worth therefore she has very low expectations of men and then is left hoping to get more hence the "I want a guy to buy me things to show me he cares, she has never had a guy care for her clearly because she doesn't know how to allow a guy to care for her. End it now she will drive you up the wall.
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