Abril Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 we broke up in january well he was the one that dumped me after a one year becuase he is to much busy with university and work and he will not have time to our long distance relation we alwyas had a very good relation, with lots of chimestry we even talked about future, then after 1 month he started to contact me he is sweet and cute , when he dumped me he asked for "friendship" that wa sdifficult but well i still love him but he dont comeonline on messenger as before he say because he is so busy with his doctorate and dont have time, but he answer to my emails, so he’s not ignoring me in that sense but also is at the same time….I don’t understand any of this and these are my questions: 1.What is his deal? Why would he give specific days he’s available to chill if he doesn't wanna see me? (if that normal male behavior?) 2.Why would he appear offline/block me on msn while at the same time, respond to me texts if he WANTED to ignore me/not be friends? I’m just confused because it seems like he’s trying to avoid me but at the same time he is not…I’m so confused about his behavior. And NO I haven’t been calling him or bugging him about hanging out AT ALL. **It has been 2 months since he broke up with me and he isn't the type of person who would do these things to spite people or anything well i always being supportative and the breaking up wasnt my fault he claims he felt overhelmed about his job in hospital and his doctorate
BserBuff Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Sounds like he is confused too? Try asking him
Author Abril Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 last time we talked I asked him if he see a future about us togheter and he answer: le me finish the doctorate then everything gonna be clearly:)
carhill Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 let me finish the doctorate then everything gonna be clearly Wish him well in his doctoral pursuits and go NC. He's much too busy for a relationship right now. Good on him; it's great to be busy. Now you get busy and move on with your life.
Author Abril Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 hi yes im in no contact from 1 weejk aqgoi im busy too with my bussines he always was really commit into the relation maybe he need space ti finish and figure out about our re:Dlation
GrayTree Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 My ex is doing the same thing. Its been one month since we've broken up, he said he still wanted to be my best friend and he would talk to me online, but he never comes on aim although I see him doing other things online. But he did respond to me when I talked to him on fb, he just hasnt initiated a conversation first yet and I dont want to keep doing so. I wish I knew the answer.
nowomanocry Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 (edited) My ex is doing the same thing. Its been one month since we've broken up, he said he still wanted to be my best friend and he would talk to me online, but he never comes on aim although I see him doing other things online. But he did respond to me when I talked to him on fb, he just hasnt initiated a conversation first yet and I dont want to keep doing so. I wish I knew the answer. Abril & Graytree Seems to me as if this is the amicable way of ending it, nothing to be confused about Edited February 27, 2010 by nowomanocry
Author Abril Posted February 27, 2010 Author Posted February 27, 2010 :Dhi well i been thinking about and he is really a COWARD he is the one tha started the relation and the one who stgarts to talk about commitment so if he is commitment phobic cuz he recently divorce, is his problem not mine io love him and he was really so nice guy i dont hate him but if he is not brave to confront the relation i dont need him in my life, i wll let to the time, time alwyas have the answers to everuthing
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