chrisd Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 HI there all. Need some urgent help. Im chatting to this girl via text right now, shes playing very hard to get but i know shes interested. I have been "seeing" her for about three weeks now. She wants me to try and work out what she wants to do for a date. ive said every thing i can think of but am getting no where. Any ideas anyone. Even just what to say to her.
UCFKevin Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 Nah, you can't talk at a movie. How about going to a pool hall and play some pool/darts?
Author chrisd Posted January 7, 2004 Author Posted January 7, 2004 Tried that, apparntly thats boring. She just said that whatever it is she likes to do at night, in the winter and has to be a spur of the moment thing ???????????????
SoleMate Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 whatever it is she likes to do at night, in the winter and has to be a spur of the moment thing ??????????????? "Singin' in the rain"?
Author chrisd Posted January 7, 2004 Author Posted January 7, 2004 Ok she has just given me some words to go on with: Fast, cold, dry,lights, smashing, warm, dark,sunny, muddy. What the heck is that meant to mean ???????????????????
moimeme Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 Skating rapidly at night outdoors, hitting a wall real hard in the dark, noticing the operating room lights through the haze of the coma, dreaming about being someplace tropical while in the coma?
Author chrisd Posted January 7, 2004 Author Posted January 7, 2004 THIS IS DRIVING ME MAD!!!!!!! Ive never heard anything like it before. She just promised me that she isnt winding me up. Talk about playing hard to get !
Author chrisd Posted January 7, 2004 Author Posted January 7, 2004 No shes not, well at least i dont think she is. Whatever it is has to involve her four year old son.
dyermaker Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 Wow, sounds to me like she's tryin to shake ya.
jenny Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 i'm all for imagination, but she just sounds flaky and annoying.
dyermaker Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 If some girl couldn't honestly tell me what it is that she wants to do, but made me play 20 questions to get it, I'd lose interest... fast. She's totally testing you... to see how much crap you'll put up with. Note the mention of her four year old, not the most attractive of assets in the singles world.
jenny Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 Note the mention of her four year old, not the most attractive of assets in the singles world. wow. i have to say i'm surprised by this from you. i think it's accurate, but i'm still surprised.
dyermaker Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 I didn't mean that there's something wrong with single mothers, and I completely sympathize with them. My own mother was one for a few years. However, when dating someone, if you are very interested, you would recognize that the average single male isn't mature or responsible enough to pursue a strong enough relationship to take on a child in addition to the woman. I know from my own mothers experiences that the process of telling a guy you are interested in about your child is pretty nerveracking, as you don't really want to lose any investment you had. The fact that she revealed it so nonchalantly suggests that she isn't interested in a relationship, and she's waiting for you to get fed up about it. That's all I meant, sorry if you were shocked.
jenny Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 o, i see. i imagine it would be so tough. the women i work with say the same thing; they say it's much worse when the child is young. we're so off topic in this thread, but i actually think i am beginning to understand, a little bit, where your amazing maturity comes from.
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