aerogurl87 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 My ex, who I'm now completely out of love with, makes no sense to me. He tells me 6 months prior to now he hates me. Then a month ago he comes out and says he loves me, disappears for a week, and finally comes back and says we can't be because he doesn't want to hurt me. Ok, so I move on and find myself talking to this guy in Canada (who is so awesome in his own right, it's not even funny ) Anyway, so me and the Canadian guy decide that I'll come visit him this summer. Everything in my world is going great again. So out of the blue my ex texts me one morning, asking how I am. I say I'm doing good and then he asks me if anything new is going on in my life. I tell him I plan to go to Canada this summer and don't even mention the fact that I'm going to go there to visit this new guy. My ex loses it, goes off on me for wanting to travel, and tells me I might end up like the girl in Taken. Now I'm confused. 6 months ago I was an evil succubus that he threatened to shoot if he saw me again and now he's freaking out about the possibility of me being kidnapped. I'm wondering what gives?
northstar1 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 My ex, who I'm now completely out of love with, makes no sense to me. He tells me 6 months prior to now he hates me. Then a month ago he comes out and says he loves me, disappears for a week, and finally comes back and says we can't be because he doesn't want to hurt me. Ok, so I move on and find myself talking to this guy in Canada (who is so awesome in his own right, it's not even funny ) Anyway, so me and the Canadian guy decide that I'll come visit him this summer. Everything in my world is going great again. So out of the blue my ex texts me one morning, asking how I am. I say I'm doing good and then he asks me if anything new is going on in my life. I tell him I plan to go to Canada this summer and don't even mention the fact that I'm going to go there to visit this new guy. My ex loses it, goes off on me for wanting to travel, and tells me I might end up like the girl in Taken. Now I'm confused. 6 months ago I was an evil succubus that he threatened to shoot if he saw me again and now he's freaking out about the possibility of me being kidnapped. I'm wondering what gives? He sounds immature. Wants what he can't have, so he throws a tantrum because you are enjoying your life. You need to just ignore him and move on.
Author aerogurl87 Posted February 27, 2010 Author Posted February 27, 2010 He sounds immature. Wants what he can't have, so he throws a tantrum because you are enjoying your life. You need to just ignore him and move on. I am because I got tired of putting up with his moodswings and hot, cold behaviour. Thanks though.
sweetjasmine Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 6 months ago I was an evil succubus that he threatened to shoot if he saw me again He said that, and you're still in contact with him?
threebyfate Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Yup, typical dog in a manger routine. Don't want you but no one else can have you and you're not allowed to be happy. Next time he contacts you, just don't respond. It's not worth it to have to put up with his silly pride.
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