McGrupp Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 why the **** not/ SERIOUSLY because ill keep some dignity? IDK. because i know the answer? yup because im super bored and lonely and snowed in and miss my baby? WELL THAT COULD BE THE NUMBER 1 REASON. so so so lonely. and so so so bored. and so tired of all of this... somone respond as im snowed in and alone for the next 2 days...
curiousnycgirl Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Well we can be snowed in together. I shoveled that sh*t 3X today, my back is killing me and my driveway is already plowed in again. I don't think I am going to shovel again - I'll just stay here until the spring thaw comes. I too am bored and lonely. As my bakc was screaming I thought about how nice it would be to have someone to do this with, to share the burden. Ok I didn't think someone - I thought HIM. My neighbors came to help me just as I was finished but the thought was lovely. Then I got home, opened a bottle of wine and now am just a little tipsy. So yes I understand the desire to call and beg, grovel and even snivel. But we are NOT going to do it. Because it won't get us what we want and as hard as it is to believe we will feel even worse if we do. XXOO McGrupp!
Author McGrupp Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 my ex was a helluvva a shoveler. too bad girl..ill be in nyc this weekend. ill think of you...
DenverBachelor Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 I mean this in the nicest way, McGrupp, but you just need to get some hobbies other than pawing for your ex. Take up chess, start a coin collection, go take Salsa lessons -- go to the movies, go to the gym, go on walks around the city, etc. There are dozens of things you should be getting into and wrapping up all your time so that you keep wondering, "how would I even find time to date?" Then you'll see that co-dependency need start to disappear entirely.
Author McGrupp Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 tis true. hopefully ill move soon and get a new social scene instead of watching '17 again" with my mom for the 2nd time today.
9Lives Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 tis true. hopefully ill move soon and get a new social scene instead of watching '17 again" with my mom for the 2nd time today. Listen Good.....DO NOT CALL YOUR EX!!!! Call mother,father,sister,brother,friend,auntie,uncle, cousin, grandmother, grandfather, Jesus.....ANYBODY!!!! Call anybody but your ex...it is a waste...wasste....waste of time time time....just dont do it
Author McGrupp Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 yes, zach efrun is slowly making me forget my ex...(no homo)
health Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 tis true. hopefully ill move soon and get a new social scene instead of watching '17 again" with my mom for the 2nd time today. LMAO! Love it! I would say keep busy. Focus on your own growth and healing. You'll be good.
mmk1 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 I tried the begging, pleading the last time I my ex broke up with me. It got me nowhere and I just felt like a idiot. I too would have love to have that opportunity back to not engage in that behavior. The last time I contacted her was in October, 2009, and I feel better for not caving in since then. I see her professionally 1-2x a month and a quick hi is sufficient as she will never give me what I need from her. I don't need to hear about her life that no longer includes me as a priority. I believe the best thing is one final dignified conversation where you clearly state you want to reconcile. If the answer is no, accept it with dignity, thank her for being honest and wish her well. Then, NC all the way. By doing this, you will get the same results as begging and pleading, feel much better about yourself and begin moving on with your life quicker. If you've done this, no need to contact again. She knows how you feel and doesn't care. Good luck!
sedgwick Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 w so so so lonely. and so so so bored. and so tired of all of this... somone respond as im snowed in and alone for the next 2 days... Man, dig yourself out and go sledding! Immerse yourself in a book, video game, or indoor project of some sort! Stay online and talk to people here! Call a friend! But DO NOT make contact with your ex, because you KNOW begging won't work and you'll just feel sh*tty later.
mickleb Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 What happened to your travelling plans, McGp? x
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