Author betamanlet Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 What has work being hectic, got to do with drawing female interest through posting pictures? Aren't chicks fighting to get with you, due to the pic posted? um, no...........
threebyfate Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 um, no...........Then jealousy and anger aren't working. So...what do you suppose works with women?
Taramere Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 um, no........... Like others, I'm surprised by the picture. You post like someone who is quite badly depressed and has absolutely no self esteem.... but from the picture you look an attractive and physically healthy guy who takes good care of himself. Were things very different for you, at the time that picture was taken, to the way they are now?
Silver_star Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 If you put up a pic say on a dating site, with you with a woman, you might get called a "pig" but there will still be more interest in you than if you put a pic of yourself alone. Why? Because you appear desired by a woman, hence other women will find it more desirable. Take this pic of me for example. I look pretty bad, my eyes are not even open, but I posted it on facebook, I got called all sorts of names, but then after that, interest in me.. http://www.imagedump.com/index.cgi?pick=get&tp=558593 Maybe the girls that are interested (after seeing this pic) are interested because they have insecurities to feed. Not about you, more about them. Why do you want to find this type of girl, unless you are just interested in drama. If i saw a guy on a dating site with a girl, id skip it NO matter how he looked or what I read. Who puts up a pic like that? really?
hats Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Like others, I'm surprised by the picture. You post like someone who is quite badly depressed and has absolutely no self esteem.... but from the picture you look an attractive and physically healthy guy who takes good care of himself. Aha! So it did work!
meerkat stew Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Actually I think "that chick" may be a tranny. She does have some big ole man hands and a very flattish looking chest. OP, having attractive women in your pics is fine. Don't have your arm around them, and it's best to have other men and women in the pic too as opposed to a "couples" look. What amazes me is how many women put pictures of them out obviously in bars with really cheezy looking guys in the picture with them. Anyone in the pictures with you should either be family or look classy. You are dead on correct, pics with attractive upper middle class looking women whom you aren't hanging on or vice versa are excellent for dating profiles due to women's tendency to crave social value in men. I had one with a very attractive preppy looking friend and a baby for a long time, and it brought better response rate.
Author betamanlet Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 Then jealousy and anger aren't working. So...what do you suppose works with women? being a bit more douchey I suppose... Oh, I'm think IF I put up an ad, I would get more responses using that pic than if I didn't. Then again, it would get "competitive" women...
threebyfate Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 being a bit more douchey I suppose... Oh, I'm think IF I put up an ad, I would get more responses using that pic than if I didn't. Then again, it would get "competitive" women...If that's your belief, then what's stopping you from doing it, if it gets you what you want?
Author betamanlet Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 Like others, I'm surprised by the picture. You post like someone who is quite badly depressed and has absolutely no self esteem.... but from the picture you look an attractive and physically healthy guy who takes good care of himself. Were things very different for you, at the time that picture was taken, to the way they are now? I was even more pathetic when that pic was taken.
Taramere Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Aha! So it did work! I'm maybe off topic here, because I wasn't really thinking in terms of "is it a good idea for a man to put a picture of himself with a woman onto a dating site?" I don't think that would be a good plan. Facebook isn't a dating site, though.. It's a social networking thing, and plenty of people post profile pics of themselves with other people. Maybe I'm missing something vital, but I don't see why Betamanlet would provoke any particular comments from people on his friends list for posting that picture. Unless the girl in the picture isn't happy about having her photo anywhere on the Internet (and some people do feel very strongly about that). I was even more pathetic when that pic was taken. What do you think is at the root of this low self esteem?
Author betamanlet Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 I'm maybe off topic here, because I wasn't really thinking in terms of "is it a good idea for a man to put a picture of himself with a woman onto a dating site?" I don't think that would be a good plan. Facebook isn't a dating site, though.. It's a social networking thing, and plenty of people post profile pics of themselves with other people. Maybe I'm missing something vital, but I don't see why Betamanlet would provoke any particular comments from people on his friends list for posting that picture. Unless the girl in the picture isn't happy about having her photo anywhere on the Internet (and some people do feel very strongly about that). What do you think is at the root of this low self esteem? Very limited and horrific experiences with women.
Taramere Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Very limited and horrific experiences with women. I would suggest that by using a picture of you with another woman on a dating site, you'd be inviting further negative experiences into your life. As you yourself note, the only women who'd be liable to respond to a picture of someone who appeared to be attached would either be competitive women who would probably be too aggressive for you to handle...or they might be women who are looking to swing.
threebyfate Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Oh, so betamanlet is targeting the lowest common denominator and doesn't want them? Then why would he be doing this?
You'reasian Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 May attract some women, maybe alot of them - using that as a tactic may help you get dates by seeming more unavailable, but the woman of your dreams will not be attracted by it. Yes ladies, many of you are more responsive to men who are less available. Good dating tactic, bad relationship move.
bac Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 it is a great idea to attract the lesbians and bi-curious. some men have fantasies about them.
Author betamanlet Posted March 3, 2010 Author Posted March 3, 2010 it is a great idea to attract the lesbians and bi-curious. some men have fantasies about them. i had a chick go lesbian on me, it's not cool.
bac Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 i had a chick go lesbian on me, it's not cool. What do you mean 'go lesbian' on you? Any details? I thought you are a beta-MALE but not a beta-girl
TheWatcher Posted March 3, 2010 Posted March 3, 2010 Take this pic of me for example. I look pretty bad, my eyes are not even open, but I posted it on facebook, I got called all sorts of names, but then after that, interest in me.. http://www.imagedump.com/index.cgi?pick=get&tp=558593 Beta..if that's really you in the pic.You are lucky to have had the company of such an attractive woman.From your posts you give the impression that you have had little to no contact with the opposite sex. I can see how some women after looking at the pic would say."Hey,he's with a pretty attractive woman...maybe he has something...I'll give him a shot." After looking your picture...I realized that I've never put my arm around a woman's waist.You're lucky.
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