jb89 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 So I've been NC for quite some time now. I found out last week that she's already dating the guy I had suspected she was interested in. Surprisingly, I'm not thinking about her all the time anymore! The dreams about her almost all went away, and each day is no longer seeming like a year. What now though? I'm getting there, and I'm healing, but are there any final steps I should take for NC? Or at this point is it just time that'll finish it off? And thank you to everyone on this board who helped me through my whole mess. I wouldn't have made it to this point without you all!
USMCHokie Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 NC with her lasts a lifetime, my friend. If you've gone 4 weeks NC, then the next step is to go 4 more...and then 4 more after that...until you don't even notice or care that you're in NC...
BigTenInchRecord Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 NC til the end. Ride the wave my friend.
Beeotch Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 So I've been NC for quite some time now. I found out last week that she's already dating the guy I had suspected she was interested in. Surprisingly, I'm not thinking about her all the time anymore! The dreams about her almost all went away, and each day is no longer seeming like a year. What now though? I'm getting there, and I'm healing, but are there any final steps I should take for NC? Or at this point is it just time that'll finish it off? And thank you to everyone on this board who helped me through my whole mess. I wouldn't have made it to this point without you all! Congrats! I don't see what "steps" there would be to take....all NC is, is you not talking to your ex and inserting yourself into their lives so you can move forward. And seems to me that is exactly what is being accomplished. So keep on doing what you're doing and living your life...."time" will finish it off and completely end that chapter
LostInLimbo Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 NC with her lasts a lifetime, my friend. If you've gone 4 weeks NC, then the next step is to go 4 more...and then 4 more after that...until you don't even notice or care that you're in NC... Said Best LiL
counterman Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Well said by the others. Just keeps going. I don't even know how many weeks or months I've been in no contact with my ex for. Frankly, I don't even care. It's not as though I will ever voluntarily contact her again. Keep it up, you're doing really well
Author jb89 Posted February 26, 2010 Author Posted February 26, 2010 Thank you for all the kind words, I'm on my way to being completely over it, I just need a little push to get all the way over the hump in life right now, if that makes any sense
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