Not so sure about this.

[RockGuy87]

Ive been trying to get back out and dating again. Ive gone out once and have 2 more planned. But a friend of mine's girlfriend mentioned me to one of her friends and she said i was cute and so they want me to go on a double date kinda thing. I would be all up for this defiently but i checked her out and she is "okay" looking but i saw she had a kid....that is the big deal to me.. Im only 19 and she graduated when i did so im guessing shes around the same age.

 

Have you guys dated someone with a kid this young before? I mean if she didnt have one i would defiently go but im just not sure now. Am i over thinking this? What do u guys think? I hate that since she had a kid so young it kinda makes me judge her in a way but i cant help it.

[boogieboy]

If it bugs you now, it will bug you even more when she tells you "I cant now because I cant find a babysitter". So I would say dont bother.

[hats]

I think you're overthinking it. It's just a date, what have you got to lose? If it turns out the kid is a dealbreaker for you, just don't get involved any more.

[make me believe]

I'm a 26 year old female and I wouldn't date a guy with a kid. It's just too much responsibility & I don't want to deal with it. (Plus, I don't know if I ever want kids anyway.) If you guys were to get serious, you'd pretty much become a dad right away. I think you're too young to deal with somebody who has that baggage. (I feel kinda bad saying that, though... the poor girl probably has a tough time finding guys willing to date such a young, single mother.)

[RockGuy87]

See I feel bad for judging also but i dont think im going to do it. I mean i dont want to have to plan dates around baby sitters and not being able to stay out late and having all that baggage. So feel bad for it but im not going down that road.