sms92085 Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 A lil back round first I was very happilly married and a couple years ago i got divorced. We had a horrible divoce but its probally because i had a lot of problems back then. Im not sure if the damage is to severe to repair anything and everything from communicating to each other to being to together again........ Everything i was doing wrong back then i fixed but not before messing up our relationship... I used to drink and i quit... that was the biggest thing... The last time we spoke was some what pleasent but she told me to never call her again and that she thought it best if we didnt talk anymore. I was never able to show any improvement up until that point. So i completely understand. Its been 8 months since we talked in any way no emails no phone calls no cards no letters no nothing. She blocked me on facebook and myspace. But then i started getting my stuff together, i quit drinking, i got consuling, all of my friends can see that i have changed for the better in a big way... My problem is that we dont talk and she doesnt know that ive changed. But i promised her i would never contact her again ( she asked me too) I want to tell or show her that im a different man now, but im afraid of making things worse by calling her... I dont have anyway to contact her except by phone. And im afraid i damaged things too much for her to ever call again, but at the same time if she only knew how much ive changed she might consider talking to me again. Do i wait on her which could be never again, or do i do something about this before its just plain too late. Im just looking to repair this communication problem we have after that if our relationship is outta the question i think ill be okay with that... I just want her to know that ive tried for a long time now to be a better person, without damaging this thing any further
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