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Should I be making a move here?


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I was out at the bar a week ago when this really attractive guy started dancing with me. Eventually, he mentioned how I was in one of his classes - I had no idea! I figured it must be one of my larger classes (about 250+ people), but as it turned out, he's in my 20 person class. Anyways, we introduced ourselves and went on dancing with one another for a large part of the night. We had a week-long break from classes, and then we had class together for the first time since this encounter yesterday (Wednesday).

 

He didn't look in my direction once (or at least not as far as I could tell).

 

What is up with that? Did I hurt his confidence by not knowing who he was? Does that mean the ball is in my court to go up and say hi? Maybe he just doesn't remember the night (we were at a bar after all), but I didn't think he was that drunk.

 

Any input here guys? Did I screw something up? He seemed really cool!

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Yeah...

Go up to him and ask him if he wants to dance......

 

He might just be trying to play it cool......

If he rebuffs you, then shrug, and move on.

Really, at this stage, it's no big deal.

His loss.......

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If he didnt look in your direction in class, he either

1.) Forgot he met you already, which he could care less

2.) Is too shy to say something to you without the buzz on.

Doesnt hurt to make the move, obviously he isnt going to make one.

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