McGrupp Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 check this out: http://twiturm.com/2ju2p fudgin awesome...
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 fudgin awesome... I think that is the height of boorish offensiveness. Yes, what she did is horrible, but to publicly air your dirty laundry only lowers you to her level. If your relationship is full of deceit and lies and infidelity, than end it with courtesy and dignity -- not for the entire world to hear. Who would seriously want to date a guy that would do that?
Author McGrupp Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 she found the ring, got excited and then cheated on him again. i think it was great, brutal but great. you ever find out your gf cheated on you? believe me it feels far worst...
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 you ever find out your gf cheated on you? believe me it feels far worst... I walked in on my husband cheating on me -- with three other men. And then I found my last BF was cheating on me, yes, a week after we broke up. But I believe that people should treat each other with respect, even when it has not been reciprocated and lowering one's self to such levels is reprehensible when done in such a public fashion.
counterman Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 That was awful to listen to, especially at the end. I can only imagine what it would be like to be cheated on but, then again, I wouldn't end a relationship like that. I walked in on my husband cheating on me -- with three other men. And then I found my last BF was cheating on me, yes, a week after we broke up. That's horrible!
Author McGrupp Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 perhaps you have a point. i mean, i think its funny and its probably fake...but sorry?
Tony T Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Great piece of audio. This cheating stuff goes on ALL THE TIME! I think I would die if I got caught doing anything while I was on LIVE radio. I'm shocked the girl stayed on the line so long after finding out she was on live radio. DUH!
carhill Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Attention whore, most likely. Relationship re-write, likely that Chris was cheating on her, send it out on the Barbie Hotline and she's golden. She'll be banging another dude within days, now that Eric has been exposed and is no longer exciting. Classic. You can thank my stbx for that little bit of creative insight
lkjh Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I love how all the responses from the women on that website were talking about how cruel the bf was. Yet none of them mentioned how cruel it is to cheat on their SO while planning on spending the rest of their lives with them
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I love how all the responses from the women on that website were talking about how cruel the bf was. Yet none of them mentioned how cruel it is to cheat on their SO while planning on spending the rest of their lives with them Please re-read the second post in this thread: "Yes, what she did is horrible, but to publicly air your dirty laundry only lowers you to her level." What SHE did was horrible. And she is on a LOWER level. But two wrongs do not make a right. She should be taken to task for her actions, but to do so publicly was wrong. Seriously, would you want to date EITHER of these people, based on their actions?
carhill Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Seriously, would you want to date EITHER of these people, based on their actions? Nope, but neither will be lacking for dates because that's how the world works. The good people labor away quietly, being gentleman and ladies, while the attention whores garner social notoriety. I'm happy it's working out for them.
Author McGrupp Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 i cant believe people are defending this cheating whore.
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 i cant believe people are defending this cheating whore. I don't think anyone is defending the girl. Please point to any entry in this thread where the girl is being defended. It is the retribution of the guy that is being questioned. They are both horrible people, in my opinion. And having DJs broadcast this kind of stuff does nothing to perpetuate evil behavior upon people and THAT is what bothers me. There is no integrity in people when this sort of activity is lauded and applauded. It is the mass-beating mentality like Rodney King; one person gets hurt and society sits back and watches while others get hurt in retribution. Why does this even have to be explained???
lkjh Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Please re-read the second post in this thread: "Yes, what she did is horrible, but to publicly air your dirty laundry only lowers you to her level." What SHE did was horrible. And she is on a LOWER level. But two wrongs do not make a right. She should be taken to task for her actions, but to do so publicly was wrong. Seriously, would you want to date EITHER of these people, based on their actions? I have no problem with public humiliation. If more people had to face up to their wrong doings less people would be so inclined to act the way she did. What the guy did was not wrong at all. If a women did this literally 75% of the women posting negative things about the guy would be giving her praise. Like the youtube video of some girl busting up her bf's car(on a college campus), not one girl wrote oh she crazy. They all wrote something along the lines of "thats what you get when you cheat". Women just hold a double standard, they want to be able to cheat and not have to face up to it. She should be humiliated everywhere she goes. She was going to trick this guy into marrying her and lied straight to his face about the OM being a friend. All in all, she is trash and got what she deserved
lkjh Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I don't think anyone is defending the girl. Please point to any entry in this thread where the girl is being defended. It is the retribution of the guy that is being questioned. They are both horrible people, in my opinion. And having DJs broadcast this kind of stuff does nothing to perpetuate evil behavior upon people and THAT is what bothers me. There is no integrity in people when this sort of activity is lauded and applauded. It is the mass-beating mentality like Rodney King; one person gets hurt and society sits back and watches while others get hurt in retribution. Why does this even have to be explained??? The guy is horrible because he acted out of anger, which is perfectly natural? If he was your son I doubt you would be so quick to call him evil, you would be bad mouthing the gf
Woggle Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I love how all the responses from the women on that website were talking about how cruel the bf was. Yet none of them mentioned how cruel it is to cheat on their SO while planning on spending the rest of their lives with them If it were the other way around they would be saying you go girl. They are defending her because she is a woman. This is just great to listen to and any man who has been in his position is cheering him on.
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 The guy is horrible because he acted out of anger, which is perfectly natural? If he was your son I doubt you would be so quick to call him evil, you would be bad mouthing the gf Why do people keep insisting it would be different if it were the other way around? I maintain that if this boy were my son, I would chastise him for airing his dirty laundry publicly and not have the CLASS to keep such horrendous activity private. There is no double standard here for me whatsoever. I do not condone the woman's activity -- and I challenge anyone to find any post I have ever made on this site which condones such reprehensible behavior -- but I am appalled of the gang mentality that exists here which applauds and venerates ANYBODY destroying ANYBODY publicly the way this guy did. NOBODY deserves to be treated that way; man OR woman. I guess hoping mankind can be KIND to one another is a fantasy myth which I continue to hope for. I'm not even a Christian yet the concept of the Golden Rule seems to lie dormant in our society. Whatever happened to personal traits like dignity? No one here seems to have any.
scatterd Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 My heart was pounding through the whole thing.WOW she deserves to get it but I think him alone doing it would be harsh but this this was rotten.I dont beleive in cheating it hurts alot but I wonder how he felt after the fact, he was having a hard time talking.
samsungxoxo Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 (edited) I've seen this thread about the girlfriend being dumped over the radio on another site. My first impression was the same reaction as if I were to see high schoolers arguing over what girl got the man first. I think they both deserve each other. The woman was a horrible, selfish girlfriend for cheating on her man but what about the guy? He's just as trashy as her. Cheating is wrong but throwing out your personal issues on a radio with the intention of publicly humiliating someone is degrading too. IMO neither of them are sympathetic characters. Who wants a cheater or an immature scumbag for a relationship anyways? Edited February 25, 2010 by samsungxoxo
samsungxoxo Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 If it were the other way around they would be saying you go girl. They are defending her because she is a woman. This is just great to listen to and any man who has been in his position is cheering him on.It still would make no difference. Both of the characters are immature, reckless, self-center and classless....
shadowplay Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 That guy is a pig. Yes, what she did was very wrong, but the way he handled it was classless. We live in a blood-thirsty culture that loves getting vengeance as entertainment. Through watching other people enact their revenge, we can vicariously act out our own aggression and bitterness. As long as we feel confident that the other person did something wrong, no behavior is too extreme.
Hop_prophet Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Oh its wrong for him to break up publicly but ok for her to publicly humiliate him around town? This girl certainly deserved what she got. I bet she learned a lesson from it to. If people like this are not taken to task they will probably repeat the behavior on the next clueless person. The bf wasn't even that harsh. He just dumped her and regained his self respect. He didn't rub anything in her face and he didn't spill any sordid details about her. She already made the act public by flaunting it in bars for everyone to see. The radio DJ's laughing at her when she broke down, now that was a little harsh, but that was not under the bf's control. 5 years wasted on this woman and people beat him up for dumping her on air? He could have done alot worse IMO. I don't know if I could do something like that but I can't help but feel it is totally justified.
CarrieT Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 The radio DJ's laughing at her when she broke down, now that was a little harsh, but that was not under the bf's control. Of course it was under the BF's control -- you break up PRIVATELY, with respect and dignity. Why do we have to have an eye-for-an-eye mentality on we, as human beings, treat one another?
reservoirdog1 Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I think the guy crossed a line (being the instrument of public humiliation), though I can understand the feelings that would cause him to want to bring that about. It's been pointed out that love and hate are actually NOT opposites -- they exist together as branches at a far end of a spectrum. At the opposite end of the spectrum is indifference. That's why it's possible for love to become hate very quickly. When I learned that XW had cheated a number of times, there was certainly a part of me that wanted to see her shamed publicly. It was an anger response, pure and simple -- the feeling of wanting somebody you love so much to suffer as much emotional pain as possible for having betrayed you. But, I didn't do anything about it. (Long story short, somebody else took care of that, and neither I nor XW ever found out who it was.) Would I have restrained myself if somebody had come along and dropped the opportunity to do so in my lap? Don't know. I wouldn't have sought it out, though. The part I always find disturbing about stuff like that (which, I admit, didn't stop me from listening to it out of morbid curiosity) is the evident glee that the radio guys take from human suffering. You see that kind of thing in the media every day. They don't really give a crap about the guy who got cheated on... they put him on because it's a ratings booster. Basically, they used him for ratings (though he allowed them to).
single-n-lonely Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 that's a pretty bad way to break it to her! but she should be prepared for the consequences of her actions
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