alaman19 Posted January 7, 2004 Posted January 7, 2004 Ok for all of those who read my last few posts you'll know somewhat about this...Anyway the girl I like I saw the other day for the first time in over a month at a meeting..anyway she had mentioned before about wanting to get my two way phone number..well when I saw her the other day I had forgotten to ask her for hers but before I could think of it she saw my phone and got hers out to give me her number..Anyway her uncle who helps out in our volunteer groups saw it and made a comment like "you all don't need to be talking to each other like that"blah blah blah..well she just giggled and smiled at his comment and gave me her number anyway.. so basically where do I go from here..I"d like to ask her out but I'm not sure how? Any suggestions i'll greatly appreciate. Thanks
dyermaker Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 Call her, and say "I'd like to (activity) with you on (date) at (time), are you available?".
VivianLee Posted January 8, 2004 Posted January 8, 2004 Originally posted by alaman19 Ok for all of those who read my last few posts you'll know somewhat about this...Anyway the girl I like I saw the other day for the first time in over a month at a meeting..anyway she had mentioned before about wanting to get my two way phone number..well when I saw her the other day I had forgotten to ask her for hers but before I could think of it she saw my phone and got hers out to give me her number..Anyway her uncle who helps out in our volunteer groups saw it and made a comment like "you all don't need to be talking to each other like that"blah blah blah..well she just giggled and smiled at his comment and gave me her number anyway.. so basically where do I go from here..I"d like to ask her out but I'm not sure how? Any suggestions i'll greatly appreciate. Thanks Hey there fellow Alabamian!! Dyermaker's advice is basically what you should do. Now if you are in college or highschool, there are basketball games to go to. Or carry her to the Summit for a movie there. A movie is a best choice for first date because other than eating, you can just be together without figuring out small talk! Now if you are going totally casual with this date, go to Johnny Rockets then you can just walk to the movie theater from there (unless it's cold as it has been here lately!)! Good luck and keep us updated!
Author alaman19 Posted January 8, 2004 Author Posted January 8, 2004 Well first off I'm suprised there's someone else here from alabama in here..small world afterall huh? anyway both of you guys I appreciate the advice alot and I've thought about asking her but I only see her once a week or every other week and I know she's busy with school and work and I'm like her in college full time but we don't go to the same schools so its hard for me to even call her and I really don't like to cause I'm afraid she'll start to think i'm bothering her so far it doesn't seem like that she's always been friendly towards me..when I first met her she apparently made a comment to her uncle that she thought I was a pretty decent guy along with another one of our guys in our group so what do you think? just keep talking to her? and try to flirt with her a little more?
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