Author joeydeee Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 You have to, I'm going through the same thing I know it's hard. You feel like you'll understand better by looking, but you won't. If you can in your browser, block her specific page so you can't look. Then fight the urge to unblock it. i just deleted her page, now she will prob text me and say y i delete her.... isn't this being an *******? what do i do to ever have a chance with her again??
skydiveaddict Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 i just deleted her page, now she will prob text me and say y i delete her.... isn't this being an *******? what do i do to ever have a chance with her again?? Nothing Move on. If she wants you back, nothing will stop her. Who cares what she thinks? This is the NEW Joey. The guy that's on his way to something better. Who doesn't look back. She made this decision not you. Let HER deal with it. You? You have no more time to waste on it.
The Paper Knight Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 i just deleted her page, now she will prob text me and say y i delete her.... isn't this being an *******? just ignore it what do i do to ever have a chance with her again?? Yes, but you must listen to us LoveShackers very carefully. At present you are suffering from "love sickness". One of the main symptoms is severe delusion. You are trying to think of stupid ways of getting her back. None of these will work. Read the "Second Chance Guide" and for the love of God, post on here what you want to say to her. It will help with our diagnosis of your condition.
Author joeydeee Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 You guys are awesome. I just joined today after 3 weeks of back and forth crap with the ex, and already I've started NC and feel much better. Listen to us Joey, trust me. thank you guys so much... i never got this up set before it blows ive been ball my eyes out..
USMCHokie Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 thank you guys so much... i never got this up set before it blows ive been ball my eyes out.. Joeydeee, please don't take any offense to this, and it might just be my mood tonight, but all I want to do is slap the living crap out of you with my boat paddle... That's just my own unique way of saying that it's over; move on...
skydiveaddict Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Joeydeee, please don't take any offense to this, and it might just be my mood tonight, but all I want to do is slap the living crap out of you with my boat paddle... That's just my own unique way of saying that it's over; move on... I would avoid the boat paddle at all cost Joey
nowomanocry Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 (edited) Hi, i am going through a break up. She tells me she doesn't want a relationship any more, but she wants to be my friend. I still have feelings for her. we went out for a year. at first she was inlove with me and i wasn't really inlove with her, because it seemed everything happend to fast. as time went on i fell in love with her and she fell out of love with me.. now i am the one hurt... she has no friends because she is not from around my area. i would get jelouse when she would hang with guy friends and think she would want to be with them, she swears she has no feelings toward anyone else just wants space to hang out and have a good time and not answer to any one. Make the long story short, she says she wants to be friends, so i read a book and descided to put the no contact into effect and tell her i am sorry and i respect the fact that you dont want to be with me any more but i can't talk to you because it coulds my thoughts .. what do i do if she calls? should i not answer? what if she texts ? not answer? just ignore her?? i still want to be with her because i love her and i respect the fact she needs space..... but at the same time i can not be her friend because i get feelings for her when i hear her voice.... she tells me she dont want to hang out because she has feelings for me and that she will get sucked back in...... what do i do?? how do i approach this?? she swears she doesn't want to be with anyone else she just wants time to do what ever she wants Hiya Jaoydee It is very normal you fall in love with her and she falls out because they like it that way - as when you admit you are in love with her you are no longer interesting for her - the important thing here is to save yer azz with minimum damage financially and emotionally lol If shes swearing on not having an affair with any of your friends this means she is having a relationship with one of your mates - guaranteed! I do not quite get the book part???? What did you read ? Believe me no woman would (as your missus tells you ) ever cut contact with you because she has feelings for you and sucked back into relationship etc. That is a big lie lol. As for phone calls I advise you to change phone numbers (if you are too freaked out to hear her voice agen - which I seriously doubt you will -) If she calls you back don't worry it will be to get the ring her granny gave her or the cat's accessories which was very practical for her or her expensive knick knicks that you bought her as prezzy so she can wear 'em for her new b/f I mean victim lmfao) They never leave any precious belongings at your place or at your disposition anyway - all damage is made to you- they empty your credit cards, crash your car, or paint the house with your brand new jumper etc. Unlike the hollywood movies it really hurts because it means money gone for you lol Now the last quote I think you can translate into "femalish" it on your own after my highly valuable r/s counseling which is F.O.C mate. Keep us posted of how ya doing GOOD LUCK Edited February 26, 2010 by nowomanocry typo
looseleaf2004 Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 do you know how? i feel like i can read what she has to say but not give in.. is that wrong??? damn i'm ****ed up like almost panicing i never felt this was before hey I actually from philly myself and going through NC for almost a month now. Feel free to contact me via email and then we can link up to talk or maybe even drinks so you can let some frustration out. Email is [email protected]. Be strong man.
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