joeydeee Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Hi, i am going through a break up. She tells me she doesn't want a relationship any more, but she wants to be my friend. I still have feelings for her. we went out for a year. at first she was inlove with me and i wasn't really inlove with her, because it seemed everything happend to fast. as time went on i fell in love with her and she fell out of love with me.. now i am the one hurt... she has no friends because she is not from around my area. i would get jelouse when she would hang with guy friends and think she would want to be with them, she swears she has no feelings toward anyone else just wants space to hang out and have a good time and not answer to any one. Make the long story short, she says she wants to be friends, so i read a book and descided to put the no contact into effect and tell her i am sorry and i respect the fact that you dont want to be with me any more but i can't talk to you because it coulds my thoughts .. what do i do if she calls? should i not answer? what if she texts ? not answer? just ignore her?? i still want to be with her because i love her and i respect the fact she needs space..... but at the same time i can not be her friend because i get feelings for her when i hear her voice.... she tells me she dont want to hang out because she has feelings for me and that she will get sucked back in...... what do i do?? how do i approach this?? she swears she doesn't want to be with anyone else she just wants time to do what ever she wants
BserBuff Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Let her do whatever she wants and dont wait for her. If neither one of u wants to be friends then whats the problem? Or r u saying u both want to get back together? How long did you and her date? Whats up with the title? r u asking what if she calls?
Author joeydeee Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 Let her do whatever she wants and dont wait for her. If neither one of u wants to be friends then whats the problem? Or r u saying u both want to get back together? How long did you and her date? Whats up with the title? r u asking what if she calls? she wants to be friends but i want to be more than friends and when i talk to her i get feelings again......but she said she don't want to be with me....we dated for a year..... well i told her not to contact me because i have get feelings to be more than friends then i told her i dont want to be friends with her... so now i am just no going to contact her, but she calls and wants to bull**** and i dont want to be her emotional healer i want to be her girlfriend or give her space and just date her.. she says she is not interested in anyone else... just wants to not have to answer to no one...... yea what if she calls? do i not answer? what if she texts? do i not answer?? how should i play it? i want her to feel extremely lonley and come back but if i dont answer and completely ignor her i think she will act out of spit and try and have sex with someone but she swearssss she don't want to be with anyone just friends
Author joeydeee Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 i want to get back with her but she doesn't want to get back with me and she says if we hang out she will give in and get back with me... then the other night she text me saying she kinda misses me i dont get it.. im the one hurt her she dont give a **** about how i feel
BserBuff Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 (edited) Yeah dude I dont think she has any right to do that. So she thinks calling u and talking to u is NOT going to lead to a reconnection? She doesnt really think it or does she? From everything ur telling me, probably not. If she doesnt want anybody else than y cant she do whatever she wants while she is with you? If she wants to hang out with dudes ok go with her. I think u shouldnt answer her calls or talk to her period. If one day u meet again and things are ment to be then so be it. if that day ever comes it needs to be a long time from now and u should never hope it to be. Edited February 25, 2010 by BserBuff
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