Author bballer13 Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 and just so you know, the only reason I've been saying some of the angry comments on this thread is because of how much I liked her and still like her. I still can't get over the fact that if things were going so well how they could end so harshly over one comment that I regret saying. when I was with this girl she was the sweetest prettiest and most entertaining person I've ever been around. she literally took up my life. wed literally spend all day together and the comments I'm making now are just trying to help me get over the confusion I feel. I've never like someone as much as this girl and I've never been so hurt and confused before. I guess ill never understand why she didn't respect me enough to even talk me but oh well life goes on.
New_Life08 Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 Yeah...here is what happened. First you pick her up by text and when she asks you to come to the door you question it by telling her to just come out when she is ready. That probably put tension between her and her dad. AND she shouldn't have to give you the low-down about her dad wanting you to come to the door...you just should have did it out of courtesy. Next...she is leaning into you in the theater to which you ask if she is uncomfortable? She says kinda, and you then tell her to sit up straight so she is not uncomfy anymore. She probably thought you didn't want her being cuddly (like it was annoying you or something). Then...you lock out an already insulted girl out of the car...I think her walking away would be enough inkling that she is NOT thinking this is funny atm. Then you tell her you don't care, she can walk home. That was enough for her. She is probably just a sensitive person. The thing with her dad may have been bothering her too. It may be ridiculous by some standards, but it is probably just her way. Trust me, at her age she will not want to tell you she wants you to come to the door, or that her dad is having a fit about it. She is probably embarrassed. It is a shame for something to end if this is the case. Did you try writing her a letter? Maybe you should tell her that you do not mind coming to her door for a date etc.
Author bballer13 Posted March 1, 2010 Author Posted March 1, 2010 Yeah...here is what happened. First you pick her up by text and when she asks you to come to the door you question it by telling her to just come out when she is ready. That probably put tension between her and her dad. AND she shouldn't have to give you the low-down about her dad wanting you to come to the door...you just should have did it out of courtesy. Next...she is leaning into you in the theater to which you ask if she is uncomfortable? She says kinda, and you then tell her to sit up straight so she is not uncomfy anymore. She probably thought you didn't want her being cuddly (like it was annoying you or something). Then...you lock out an already insulted girl out of the car...I think her walking away would be enough inkling that she is NOT thinking this is funny atm. Then you tell her you don't care, she can walk home. That was enough for her. She is probably just a sensitive person. The thing with her dad may have been bothering her too. It may be ridiculous by some standards, but it is probably just her way. Trust me, at her age she will not want to tell you she wants you to come to the door, or that her dad is having a fit about it. She is probably embarrassed. It is a shame for something to end if this is the case. Did you try writing her a letter? Maybe you should tell her that you do not mind coming to her door for a date etc. The thing is I like it when shes cuddly, I was actually trying to be nice. Sitting in the front row is bad enough and she seemed like she couldn't even see the screen. She seemed to be acting a little weird after the movie though so i wouldnt be surprised if thats what she thought. I cracked 2 days ago sending her an email even though I know I shouldnt have. It was a nice letter just summing up r time together and that last night but I didn't send it for her to respond. I sent it for myself and she hasnt responded like I thought she wouldn't. For some reason I felt a relief after, and i finally have some closure.
New_Life08 Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Well, that's all you can do. Just put your mind on other things and I am sure she will come around in her own time. Even if it isn't when or how you want her to. Hang in there.
boogieboy Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 That wasn't the first time I've locked her out first of all.. she found it funny every other time and has done the same thing to me EVERY time shes picked me up. This is EXACTLY why I said before, that she was looking for a reason to break up with you. She didnt just decide one day, she was pondering this decision halfway through this relationship. She just needed an easy out, thats why it seems all of a sudden. She didnt deserve an apology, what she did was an act.
ADF Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 This woman is clearly willing, even eager, to punish you for other mens' crimes. You dodged a bullet. Stay away.
Author bballer13 Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 The reason I think you're wrong is that if that she needed a reason to break up with me she would have called me and ended it and made up a reason. But she didnt. I just think she has serious psychological issues that have nothing to do with me
BG1985 Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 The way a girl break up with a guy defies all logic in some cases. Either way y'all are done and that's all that matters.
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