chloe1408 Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 my ex left me for someone else 2 months ago and we've barely talked since i miss him everyday but am attempting to heal so have been relative NC. so anyway my neighbour asks me if im back with my ex & i said no, why? & she replies that she saw his car outside my house about 3 days ago and he was just sat there on his phone and it wasnt the first time. now my ex's car is quite a popular car however he has modified his and my neighbour has seen my ex and his car quite alot as we were together a while. it is possible she made a mistake but do i go ahead and ask him why he was sat outside my house or not? this has really freaked me out. why is he doing this?
sunrae Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 my ex left me for someone else 2 months ago and we've barely talked since i miss him everyday but am attempting to heal so have been relative NC. so anyway my neighbour asks me if im back with my ex & i said no, why? & she replies that she saw his car outside my house about 3 days ago and he was just sat there on his phone and it wasnt the first time. now my ex's car is quite a popular car however he has modified his and my neighbour has seen my ex and his car quite alot as we were together a while. it is possible she made a mistake but do i go ahead and ask him why he was sat outside my house or not? this has really freaked me out. why is he doing this? No, dont ask him $hit.. Dont call, email text, IM nothing... The only thing you need to do, is to tell your neighborhood watch committee (your neighbor), next time they see him in the area "sitting" outside your house, to call the cops....
Author chloe1408 Posted February 24, 2010 Author Posted February 24, 2010 No, dont ask him $hit.. Dont call, email text, IM nothing... The only thing you need to do, is to tell your neighborhood watch committee (your neighbor), next time they see him in the area "sitting" outside your house, to call the cops.... its really freaked me out he should be out with his new girlfriend. the only reason i can think he is sat outside my house isnt because he wants to see me, but because he wants to do something to me or my family. i cant think of another reason!
sunrae Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 its really freaked me out he should be out with his new girlfriend. the only reason i can think he is sat outside my house isnt because he wants to see me, but because he wants to do something to me or my family. i cant think of another reason! Again, more reason to tell your neighbor that if he comes back around (because he has no reason to be there) to call the police, for a suspisous person. They'll send a cop out to check out the situation, and if anything scare him into not coming around anymore.
Author chloe1408 Posted February 24, 2010 Author Posted February 24, 2010 Again, more reason to tell your neighbor that if he comes back around (because he has no reason to be there) to call the police, for a suspisous person. They'll send a cop out to check out the situation, and if anything scare him into not coming around anymore. can anyone think of a reason why he might be sat outside my house??!?!
CarrieT Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 can anyone think of a reason why he might be sat outside my house??!?! It is called stalking. Don't dwell on the WHY, just that you know it is happening and is not a good thing. As others have said, confer with a neighbor and if necessary, file a restraining order.
mizundastud Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 Maybe he misses you....my ex did that to me before but it was actually my friends house he sat in front of just staring at my car.
alphamale Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 why is he doing this? hes probably checking to see if you've got other boys coming around. you should email or txt msg him to see whats up, but don't call. just say something like your neighbor saw his car parked near your house
McGrupp Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 what alpha said, i doubt he wants to hurt you (unless he has previously been violent). but i still wouldnt contact him.
Author chloe1408 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 in the end just sent him an email sying that i didnt want any drama so nto to reply but if it was him then could it please stop because the last time we spoke he threatened to burn my house down, i also said that if it wasnt him as it was possible my neighbour had made a mistake then i owe him an apology.
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