tylerdurden Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 Well Im trying to make it short for you guys, 9 months ago met this girl online, we were living in different country,and the chemistry was here from the start, emails got longer and deeper etc... 2 months later I decided to go and see her, so I travelled half way around the world to visit her.We spent 2 weeks together, and it was the best two weeks I ve ever spent.. So before I left I made the promise to go and see her again, (she was clearly in love) , to spend some more time together, just to see if it s working Went back home(I was living in NZ at the time), things were still going great, not much communication, but that is because she is working a lot and has a few persons depending on her(including a son), Life was getting tougher for her,family issues and work issues.. The contact was still there but was less and less(I could still feel the love), I knew she was really busy so I was supporting her and I wasnt asking for much more.. Then she sent me an email, basically telling me that it was bad timing for her,that it will be better if I come to visit her later, I guess I read between the lines and I thought that she didnt want to see me, so I went nuts and basically break up with her.. Afterwards I found out about my misreading and asked her for a second chance, she said as much as she loves me, that basically that we need to think about our lives for a little while, she also said that she would love to see me again... Then we kept arguing and things got worse, I did NC for Three days... She says that we will be friend for now , cause she hasnt got time for a relationship, and I know myself that life is really tough for her right there, but I m not to keen on being just friends...been there done that.... She found out yesterday that I was going to Canada for 1 year, because she lives in NY she was hoping not to loose contact with me, so that we can see each other again... What should I do ?Go and see her?, keeping NC and carry on with my life? I really need your advice as this problem has been killing me, and I dont really want to waste my chance with her cause she is one of a kind.. Cheers T. PS:I hope you are understanding me cause English isnt my mother language Thanks to all!
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