Author Woggle Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 Its funny how you pretend this is the reason why you're not married. It might be true. I could have married a number of women between my marriages but I turned down every one except my current wife.
stillafool Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 We are enjoying it.. Many of us are just not choosing to marry those women.. If you are enjoying it so much, why do you come here and complain about young women having too much casual sex?
stillafool Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 It might be true. I could have married a number of women between my marriages but I turned down every one except my current wife. Wow, how many women asked you to marry them Woggle?
Author Woggle Posted February 28, 2010 Author Posted February 28, 2010 [/b] Wow, how many women asked you to marry them Woggle? About 3 and 4 if you want to include my ex who wanted to get back together. One of them was a known maneater who swore she would never commit to a man also.
sally4sara Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 It might be true. I could have married a number of women between my marriages but I turned down every one except my current wife. Does this mean he is also snooping on your wife and using her for in house sex? I like this like I like Springer show. I get to feel better about - me.
tami-chan Posted February 28, 2010 Posted February 28, 2010 It might be true. I could have married a number of women between my marriages but I turned down every one except my current wife. You have been asked that many? ...awesome! Many men do not get asked for marriage you must be a catch...or were..!
Jersey Shortie Posted March 1, 2010 Posted March 1, 2010 If you are enjoying it so much, why do you come here and complain about young women having too much casual sex? Oh why oh why didn't he come back to answer?
Author Woggle Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 You have been asked that many? ...awesome! Many men do not get asked for marriage you must be a catch...or were..! The mentality I had back then was very attractive to women. I always say to men to build your own life up and women will come naturally and that is exactly what I did. I turned them all down though and chose to marry an older and more intelligent women which shows that not all men prefer younger bimbos.
calizaggy Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 If you are enjoying it so much, why do you come here and complain about young women having too much casual sex? I did enjoy it. But it is a shallow less fulfilling level of enjoyment. Now that it is time to settle down I found a foreign more traditional girl. I now see what I have been missing all of these years.
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I did enjoy it. But it is a shallow less fulfilling level of enjoyment. Now that it is time to settle down I found a foreign more traditional girl. I now see what I have been missing all of these years. Maybe she'll turn out to be just like the foreign gal in that other thread whose H is complaining about her who was looking for an American with money so she doesn't have to do anything but spend, spend, spend all his cash and send it to her family back home, and then pout and make him miserable when she doesn't get her way.
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Its funny how you pretend this is the reason why you're not married. LMAO s4s. I KNOW, huh?!!! I think it's more the reason of the attitude and thought patterns.
torranceshipman Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 If you look around it is obvious that certain women just make better wives and partners than others. They are less likely to cheat, become walkaway wives and are also less likely to grow to resent their men for whatever reason. Men want to maximize the odds that we will have a happy marriage that lasts because we have seen so many of our peers go through nasty divorces or end up in marriages where their wives seem to hate them. Why is it that these men are called sexist, misogynistic and closed minded for simply wanting to avoid the drama that goes with picking the wrong woman? Isn't it perfectly logical for somebody to want to maxmize their odds of having a successful relationship? It is completely bizarre how you think the 2 are related. The first paragraph is fine: women are fine with this. But the 2nd? The 2nd describes how women react badly to you being an insulting misogynist who likes to spout a lot of woman hating stuff. Don't make excuses for your own failings/poor social skills. Stop criticizing others unfairly and look at yourself - that'll make you understand exactly why you get negative reactions from women - because of the woman hating that you do - nothing more.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 When a married man hears stuff like this from his wife, this is why men are right for protecting themselves. You ladies are responsible for your own feelings and reactions, negative or positive. I could care less. Own it
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 When a married man hears stuff like this from his wife, this is why men are right for protecting themselves. You ladies are responsible for your own feelings and reactions, negative or positive. I could care less. Own it Yeah, big deal. That's an example of one selfish, ignorant, immature woman.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Yes, it is That's how some of us deal with women, one at a time. We form opinions and learn from those experiences. Every woman I interact with does the same and views myself based on her life experiences with men, good and bad. It is what it is. I don't fault women for wanting to protect themselves. I think that's healthy, just as it is for men
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I think that's healthy, just as it is for men You DID see who the originator of this thread was, didn't you? Do you seriously think he views the opposite sex in any kind of a "healthy" way, thus protecting himself in a "normal" way?
Tnerforireyeh Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 If you look around it is obvious that certain women just make better wives and partners than others. They are less likely to cheat, become walkaway wives and are also less likely to grow to resent their men for whatever reason. Men want to maximize the odds that we will have a happy marriage that lasts because we have seen so many of our peers go through nasty divorces or end up in marriages where their wives seem to hate them. Why is it that these men are called sexist, misogynistic and closed minded for simply wanting to avoid the drama that goes with picking the wrong woman? Isn't it perfectly logical for somebody to want to maxmize their odds of having a successful relationship? That's strange, I've never ever heard of that type of man being called sexist, misogynistic, or close-minded? And even if people did call him that, why would he care what they say if he's doing what he wanted to do? It seems to me the OP has some persecution issues.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Evidently, Woggle is a man who is attractive enough to women to be proposed to, and is married to a stable and loving wife. Sounds like things are going OK for him in life. Can't argue with success
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Evidently, Woggle is a man who is attractive enough to women to be proposed to, and is married to a stable and loving wife. Sounds like things are going OK for him in life. Can't argue with success Way to tap-dance around my question.
carhill Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 His way works. This is a pragmatism which I've come to respect. It is how my stbx viewed the world and men and marriage. She was very pragmatic. She extracted what she wanted out of myself and her other husbands and has done well for herself. Whether woman or man, I cannot help but respect that kind of success. The world obviously does, as these are the people society embraces (husbands in the case of stbx and proposals in the case of Wogs). Is it my path (to view the women of the world like Wogs appears to)? No. I can respect the path without walking the path. Will I protect myself better from women like my stbx? I hope. It's already begun. Boundaries. BTW, I've never felt obligated to answer anyone's questions here, so I hope this 'explanation' is sufficient.
Tnerforireyeh Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 I'm not sure how the original post could be called pragmatic. These are the type of posts made by men who have repeatedly failed with, and have been taken advantage by, women. I know of no man who has had success with women posting anything like this. It's like people who hate lawyers or cops. They're usually folks who have been shafted by one. People who have healthy relationships with the legal system do not have animosity toward it, unless they're just blindly parroting what others have said to them.
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 His way works. For now. Just wait until his wife gets tired of his jaundiced eye. He himself has said on here that he is just WAITING for her to do him dirt.
Tnerforireyeh Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 His way works. Clearly, if one is sitting around spending time making posts like the original post in this thread, whatever one is doing isn't "working."
donnamaybe Posted March 2, 2010 Posted March 2, 2010 Clearly, if one is sitting around spending time making posts like the original post in this thread, whatever one is doing isn't "working." Do a search and read the rest. This ain't NUTHIN'!
Author Woggle Posted March 2, 2010 Author Posted March 2, 2010 The more and more I think about it the more I trust my wife. I am leary of women in general but I do give them a chance to prove themselves and she does time and time again. The major thing with her is that she empathizes and understands the male point of view. This is not to say that she always agrees with it but she sees that men are complex human beings who have legit reasons for doing the things we do. That level of respect is very rare in women and I am lucky to have it next to me every night. I do all the gentlemenly things for her like romance her, buy her gifts and all that good stuff because she earns it and she appreciates it plus she does it for me as well I don't do it to get out of the doghouse and I never will do anything to get out of the doghouse because if any woman wants to send me there she can get out of my house. That one thread that Carhill linked is the reality that many men live everyday. Look at the threads from the seperation and divorce forum and look at the threads from cheating women who act like they are the poor little victims. This is what many deal with everyday because they did not take the proper percautions to protect themselves.
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