Biccaroo Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 I recently got dumped after a 5 month whirlwind relationship and my heart is still broken 7 weeks later. She left me to get back with her ex and ever since she's been very distant with me. He'd been emailing and texting her behind my back. I know she had strong feelings for me but her ex was her first love and they'd apparently been on and off for 3 years at various points. She kicked him into touch last Summer when he refused to commit to her and ignored her calls and emails for weeks. But she's clearly hooked on him. Unfortunately, I have failed miserably during my time after the breakup to give myself any chance of reconciliation. I pretty much begged her to come back for 3 days after the breakup. I sent her emails and texts outlining my love and commitment to her. I tried NC but because she was often emailing me about various pieces of missing clothing and the like it was difficult to ignore her, especially as we work in the same company... Another issue is that she owes me £160. I've asked her for the money numerous times and each time she comes back with an excuse saying she'll pay next week, after the next payday, etc. It seems she doesn't want to pay me back so another wedge is driven between us. I don't know what to do. I sent another email about 3 weeks ago saying I'd prefer it if we didn't make contact for a while. Then, when I emailed her yesterday to ask where my money was she was very short and distant. What can I do? Do you think any chance of reconcilliation is futile? Is there anything I can do to fix this mess because I want her back so badly. ANy help or advice is greatly appreciated.
sheithappens Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 honestly man, I think you need to forget about her, she went back to the guy because she still loves him and I really do not want to sound like a D**k but three years is a very long time even if they were on and off, maybe she will break up with him soon, But you should not wait for her ... hopefully you will be able to collect your money soon , DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN, let her contact you about the money or about anything else Best of luck to you man
Author Biccaroo Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 (edited) So in other words I should give up and forget about the money? Hmm, I'm not sure I should let her get away with it that easily. We actually moved in together for a short while. Bought various items on credit. I don't see why I should pay towards something her new/old bf sleeps or sits on. That just adds insult to injury. You sure about NC in that case? Edited February 25, 2010 by Biccaroo
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