Penance Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 So, like I said on my previous post (posted on august 2009) my ex dumped me for another guy after 4 years together. I went NC like everyone said I should... We didnt had any contact until december (4 months since breakup), when she sended me a text about some totally random stuff like we were friends that talk with eachother everyday; Something like 'Hi did you saw that new movie (...)? Only you share my taste in music and films.' I replied but it was very brief, something like 'yes but i didnt like it much'. She then replied saying that she would really like to my friend, to be with me in person and talk about whatever I want to talk about. I replied by saying it was impossible to be her friend for obvious reasons and explained that it would be painful to me. 1 month later, I was surprised by a message like this: 'Hey, How are you??' ... I did not reply. Now 5 days ago, she sended me the lyrics of a song. And no it is not a love or hate song, it kinda has ambiguous lyrics... I dont understand her. Why is she doing all this? I know that she is still together with the guy she left me for and im pretty sure she is happy with him. Is it that she feels bad about what she did to me? Is just the need to have a friend with similar taste? Why cant she understand how painful this is to me? Everytime she contacts me I feel like saying 'yes i want to be with you' but I cant. I wont. Its impossible. I would love to be with her, I loved her company, thats why I wanted to stay with her, and tried to so hard to save our relationship back in august... She is the one that broke up with me, and now I feel bad ignoring her... I know its stupid, I shouldnt feel bad after what she did, but I do... Thanks guys and im sorry for the bad english.
USMCHokie Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 Is it that she feels bad about what she did to me? Yes. Is just the need to have a friend with similar taste? No. Why cant she understand how painful this is to me? Because she's selfish and only cares about her. It happens only because you allow it to happen.
LostInLimbo Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 It happens only because you allow it to happen. I agree with USM 100%%%%%%%%% read my threads, Been there, done that, never wanna be there again........ LiL
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