Author Gerhard Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 I am very comfortable being nude in front of men.. but I don't walk around the house nude... even when I'm alone... Any men? Or just your SO? I looooove my comfy housecoat.. when I get out of the shower or bath... I would never ever 'live' in a nudist community... ewwwww.. My wife often jokes that she would like for me to be naked when her best friend comes over to our house. I'd do it, but her best friend tells her husband everything and her husband and I are good friends and I don't want to jeopardize that friendship. I don't know how he'd react.
Author Gerhard Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 Sober, I am somewhat reserved. Intoxicated, I have dropped my trousers in MANY places not normally accepted. Including on dates before a kiss was ever exchanged. THANK GOD I DON'T DRINK ANYMORE. What kind of responses/reactions did you get when you took off your clothes before a kiss was ever exchanged?
laRubiaBonita Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Since this is a thread about nudity, I do have to throw something in. If you're always running around nude, letting everything hang out, where's the mystery and fun, in unwrapping your present? Agreed! i prefer clothes myself, at least underwear and a bra- i feel better when my girls are supported. i am not a prude, neither is H- but neighbors could certainly see into out house if they wanted..... the thought of bare bottoms on chairs and couch cushions is just gross... unless some loving is going on.
Maxxx Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I think I am more of a "nude" person then my gf if there is such a thing..... In the summer when it is hot I almost always sleep nude and even sometimes in the winter. But as far as walking around the house nude ah... not so much there is always someone stopping by.....
Author Gerhard Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 I think I am more of a "nude" person then my gf if there is such a thing..... In the summer when it is hot I almost always sleep nude and even sometimes in the winter. But as far as walking around the house nude ah... not so much there is always someone stopping by.....If someone stops by, open the door part way nude, stick your head around the door (hiding the rest of your body) and caution the visitor that you're nude and politely ask if you could take a minute or two to put some clothes on. Who knows, they may say to not bother - that they don't mind you being nude while they're visiting. That's what I do.
JaneInVegas Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I try to be naked as much as possible. I get home from and and off come the clothes. It is more comfortable and natural. Husband is the opposite. He would wear a wet suit and a balaclava if he could What is a balaclava??? LOL
2sunny Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 Tara wrote: Ok, so the pattern usually runs that Gerhard asks a question, gets loads of replies, then comes in with his own problem of his wife wanting to do something and trying to manipulate him, or that he wants her to do something, and she won't do it... ok, I'll bite.... So, Gerhard, what's the issue between your 'very-much-younger-than-you' wife and you, then? and you responded - without answering: Tara - See my thread on fiscal responsibility. There's an update there. She hasn't been whining about the first wife much lately. And I'm in counseling with the hope that she'll join me. Counselor and I are working on strategies to make that happen. -G as usual G - you never fully answer the question proposed that would give posters clarity in order to help you further. are you this way in your marriage too? half way in but not fully disclosing what's really on your mind? ya, i noticed - it's been obvious to me for a long time - you AVOID talking about many things here - also extremely evasive. that approach and pattern would never look healthy in any relationship. can you start changing it? really the only one we can effectively change here is you - since you are the one posting... what are you willing to change?
JaneInVegas Posted February 25, 2010 Posted February 25, 2010 I'm on the exhibitionist side, however, since I've put on a few pounds I have cut back on that quite a bit. My SO throws caution to the wind, to the point where it annoys me. While I don't mind him looking at me in the least, I DON'T want to be seen by the neighbors. We live in an apartment complex, and people routinely walk by the window. He walks around naked with the windows open, just the same. When I say something he'll say, "Who's going to see me? There's no one there!" Also, I'll make it a point to close the curtains before I get in the shower, but he'll open them back up before I leave the bathroom. I'll have to holler, "Honey! Close the damned curtains so I can get dressed, wouldja?" He always laughs at me for that, but I don't care!
Author Gerhard Posted February 25, 2010 Author Posted February 25, 2010 Tara wrote: and you responded - without answering: as usual G - you never fully answer the question proposed that would give posters clarity in order to help you further. sunny - As I provided the details in the other threads, I thought it would be more appropriate to refer readers to the other threads than to bog down this thread with copy & pastes of what I've written in other threads. are you this way in your marriage too? half way in but not fully disclosing what's really on your mind? In real life, I never have a problem repeating an answer. ya, i noticed - it's been obvious to me for a long time - you AVOID talking about many things here - also extremely evasive. PM me and ask about the things that aren't clear - or ask in the appropriate thread. I'll be happy to answer. that approach and pattern would never look healthy in any relationship. can you start changing it? really the only one we can effectively change here is you - since you are the one posting... what are you willing to change?To not bog down this thread, please PM me or respond to one of my other threads. And I'll respond in kind there. -G
nddb Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 I prefer and am much more comfy in clothes, even around the house, unless some action is going on.
Maxxx Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 If someone stops by, open the door part way nude, stick your head around the door (hiding the rest of your body) and caution the visitor that you're nude and politely ask if you could take a minute or two to put some clothes on. Who knows, they may say to not bother - that they don't mind you being nude while they're visiting. That's what I do. LOL good point!
2sunny Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 (edited) sunny - As I provided the details in the other threads, I thought it would be more appropriate to refer readers to the other threads than to bog down this thread with copy & pastes of what I've written in other threads. In real life, I never have a problem repeating an answer. PM me and ask about the things that aren't clear - or ask in the appropriate thread. I'll be happy to answer. To not bog down this thread, please PM me or respond to one of my other threads. And I'll respond in kind there. -G no answers again. it is difficult to spend any time and/or energy giving advice to a poster who doesn't change - ever. to stay on topic... i am extremely comfortable with nudity. i like my body, with or without clothes on. what who i'm with does or doesn't do - that is up to them. i can't control how they "feel." i would never presume to know how they feel at any given moment. i also wouldn't expect someone else to become uncomfortable in order to make me comfortable. Edited February 26, 2010 by 2sunny
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