Angel Pie Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 My relationship was great, not so great, awful, time apart, working on things, improvments, diminishing, borderline abusive and then flat out violent. The last week I have been alone, thinking, questioning, just so much thoughts. After help from people here and deep insight of myself, I really see now that I have to change the way I think... I made this decision last night, to look at what I have, appreciate it, be positive and to choose to feel good, no matter what and I find once you make a firm decision on something it happens. Today I felt great. I focused only on positive things. I laughed with my co-workers. I chose how to feel. No matter how bad things got with him, why should I let that bring me down? Why should I waste one more day of my life unhappy? I cant and wont and I feel pretty good about this!
madrugada Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 I'm happy for you! That's an important step; once you realize that how your outlook is your choice, things do get a lot easier. So, have you decided you don't need him to be happy? I ask because "flat out violent" doesn't sound too promising ...
Author Angel Pie Posted February 24, 2010 Author Posted February 24, 2010 I'm happy for you! That's an important step; once you realize that how your outlook is your choice, things do get a lot easier. So, have you decided you don't need him to be happy? I ask because "flat out violent" doesn't sound too promising ... Thanks, It does make everything that much easier. Yes, I have decided that I dont need him to be happy...I think this step is an all about me kind of thing, you know?
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