mellowyellow186 Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and four months. he broke up with me recently. we have always been very much in love, he is my first real love and i am his as well. we care for eachother a lot and i know he still loves and cares about me. when he broke up with me he said it was because we werent right for one another and that i deserved someone better, that wouldnt hurt me. i was very surprised because he says i did nothing wrong, and that im great but that he needs to work on himself, that something is wrong with him and he needs to work on it alone. i couldnt help but ask what he wanted to work on himself, and why he didnt want to work on it with me, i kept telling him i could help, this is when he told me what it was. four years ago he got a DUI, he upset his family and was very depressed after.. and now his depression is back. no one knows he is depressed but me. he wont tell his family and doesnt think its to the point where he needs to see a doctor. he is pushing me away. even though he says he wants to be alone he does things like text me in the day. not as much as he used to but he randomly says hey, how are you, or what are you doing, and when i see him ( we have class together) he still hugs me when he sees im upset and he always moves my hair our of my face.. i know he is seriously depressed and i dont know how to help, i just want him to be better, but aside from being depressed i dont know how he feels about me. he says he doesnt want to be in a relationship and wants to be alone but i know there is no one else and that he still loves me but when i try to get closer he pushes me away. its killing me, i want the love of my life back, i want him to be happy again. what do i do?
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