FabulousLadee Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Im sending all my threads to my ex in the mail....just so he can see how much I cared for him. I havent made many but I want him to just see from March of last year how important he was to me. Do you think that's stupid for me to do?!
Sivok Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 Yes don't do it. Breakups are always hard, my ex led me on for 6 months before admitting not only was she not in love with me, but she wasn't attracted to me either. I took it hard and felt it was because something was wrong with me, but in the end I realized we just didn't have a strong mutual connection - something gifts/care/etc cant do anything about. We don't choose who we fall in or out of love with . You're only going to torture yourself if you do
XKatieX Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 My best advice to you would be no, no, and NO! If you do that you're only going to come off looking needy and weak. As I'm sure he knows that you care about him, thats not the reason he ended it. If he wants back, he will come to you. I am sorry for what you're going through, be good to yourself.
OnlyJake Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 I haven't read your other threads, and this might sound harsh, but my intention isn't to be mean. I don't think it's stupid to want to send your threads to your ex, but I don't think you should do it. He broke up with you, which I think is a pretty clear indicator that he doesn't care how much you care(d) about him. I'm sure he knows that you liked him anyways, no point in being meladramtic about it. Really, what purpose would that serve? I'm sorry you're hurting.
Author FabulousLadee Posted February 24, 2010 Author Posted February 24, 2010 I actually broke up with him. I wasnt comfortable. We were going in the same circles and nothing was getting better. I ended it because of a Facebook status he put up about another chick. It's a long story but he got caught. He still wanted to make it work..I said no. There you have it. But it doesnt matter..it's over. No point. He is probably taking this break up like it was a get out of jail free card anyway. Who knows?! *sigh* Im not going to send them.
nowomanocry Posted February 24, 2010 Posted February 24, 2010 I hate Facebook and don't know what good is it for while you already have your neighbours phone number and still she send you an invite on facebook .. Don't send your treads luv, from what I read my personal impression it is not worth it. My LDR she dumped me couple of weeks ago, before that stupid Vals day in the mean time while I was trying to save my dads life from a brain emboly and yeh & despite all that I did she dumped me. Been 2 weeks not a single buzz from her or sms. I ain't trying to contact either .. despite all the love I feel for her and how much I'm in love with her. Like one of me mates said "good guys bite the dust and the bad & ugly get it all " Lol, life sucks and there ain't anyone who can prove me the contrary. Good luck, move on... Hope you all goes the way you want!
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