sparky26m Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 had to break 3 weeks nc to get passport as am going away for a week,,bearing in mind ex said she wanted to know if i was going away as i said i would be for a while( i am but not till summer) last saw her 5 weeks ago and we were nice to each other,,hugged it out she asked if i was going away. told her i wasnt just yet, she told me she was seeing her ex from 9 years ago( 5 weeks after she realised she didnt want me messing her around anymore after 2.5 yrs) anyway had to contact her as passport still hasent been sent,,no mind games she really is quite 4getfull. texted her saying i needed it,,she says ,,u know me i forgot ,its in my bag will send later today as im off out( with the new bf no doubt) and before i go i should check out this pizza place in .....,,, told me to have a good time and that she had indeed posted it as i asked. see she doesnt care,,is in the honeymoon after 6 weeks with bf,,,seeing me as an old friend recommendiung a pizza place erghh! no thanks ,,was nice and short with her,,told her thanks and take care all the usual bs now ive been great last few weeks,,meeting girls,,even had a fling on sat night,,found my social life and loving it,,and she is loving life without me ,,so i guess my message is ,,girls move on v quick and us guys dont,,,but trust me go out enjoy your life who cares what ur ex is doing,,they are gone i can read the signs ,,she is over me ,,4 good,,,dare say in love with the rebound ,,,till he treats her bad,,,as he used to,,she wont ever miss me 4 sure!! im moving on im proud to say,,,im slowly seeing her faults and what i didnt like in her....its hard to say but im happy for her,,,and im gonna be happy too so please read the signs that are in front of you as i have and move on dont over analyse everything ....they hve moved on and unless they are instigating contact so must u anyone with any input or guidance please do
Beolf Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 going out with girlfriends is 1, interested in other guys and lying to you about it but wanting to stay friends is 2. those are enough for me to suck it up and let her go, but its hard, i must learn self preservation.
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