number0nesingle Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 i am 29 and he is 27. after almost four years of being together, i thought it was about time for us to take our relationship to the next level. I was not talking about getting married. I just wanted to finally meet his parents and be formally introduced as his girlfriend. I also wanted to spend time with his friends because i barely know most of them. I am aware that he has his own personal issues that he was unable to deal with yet. I wanted to wait until he gets those issues resolved but I also know that I am not getting any younger. I want to know whether our relationship will actually lead to somewhere. I brought that up with him last weekend. I told him that lately I was not feeling completely happy about how things were going. I told him I wanted him to give me a chance to get to know his parents and friends. He told me I would be better off with another guy because he was unsure if he could meet my demands anytime soon. I love him and I am afraid of losing him. I told him I do not want any other guy. I apologized for ever bringing that up. I begged him to stay. He said he will stay but he just wants us to be friends. He said he can't help but feel pressured about the things i said. He does not want for me to wait for him resolve his issues because that time might not come. I don't want for us to be just friends. Then he asked me to give him about a month to think things over. He said he still loves me but he needs to find out for himself if love would be enough for us to get through this situation. I agreed to give him the time he needs for I do not want to lose him completely. This is just the second day and I am finding it difficult for us to just stay friends. I still have 41 days before he gives me an answer whether we will continue or journey together or just part ways...
Lucy_b Posted February 23, 2010 Posted February 23, 2010 4 years and you have not met his parents? 4 years and you do not know his friends? This is not good I am sorry but If someone truely loves you no matter how bad there parents are you will be introduced to them at some point this also aplys to the friends. Keep strong x
Author number0nesingle Posted February 23, 2010 Author Posted February 23, 2010 4 years and you have not met his parents? 4 years and you do not know his friends? This is not good I am sorry but If someone truely loves you no matter how bad there parents are you will be introduced to them at some point this also aplys to the friends. Keep strong x well, I have met his parents once but I was just not introduced as the girlfriend. He tells stories about his friends but I never got the chance to meet most of them in person. thanks. i am still hanging in there...
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